"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are There Signs To Tell If Shes Way Younger

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I have been to relationship sites where I have read post from teens young like 18 attracted to much older men like myself and a few are actually married to men decades older and very happy or in a relationship.

Now I am not looking to get married but are there different signs a young legal teen 18 or early 20's girl will give a much older man like myself if she is interested sexually and in something more or is it better regardless of age just assume attraction?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What about sharing your new found wisdom with us? ;)
 

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Fair enough.

Actually this cutie was feeling me out to set me up with her Mom who is hot and looks alot like her but only older. At the present time I am seeing how things go when I speak with her again that is her Mom and when I can find time to hang out with her.

Speaking of newfound wisdom she drew me into her by being flirty, humorous and offered personal information about herself etc., and when I would show interest she would direct my energy by mentioning her Mom which is the same way she was like being a health nut etc., and showing me her picture which is hint enough to know she was looking for a good guy for her Mom as she mentioned that she wasn't seeing anyone serious.

I am not disappointed but would still love to explore that young sweet cutie.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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