“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are there any other oppurtunities for me to approach women?

eminence

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good job skilla_staz the 15 minutes you just wasted on writing that you will never get back again.

Heres my tip: Don't give this guy advice, don't respond, reply, give him any attention. He is a lonely, helpless, pathetic waste of a human body. I'm not going to even call him a troll because i truely believe he is this pathetic.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MrConfidence

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Haha, you know so little eminence.
 

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Em: Took me like 4 minutes, but I'll give it to you anyways haha. It wasn't a complete waste, other kids coming in here with an actual head on their shoulders might be helped by that. Plus, I was eating at the same time, so I was making the most of my time.

MrConfidence: Your insult "you know so little" is a seeminly mild attempt at an internet flame war. In my short time on the forums I've seen a couple peolpe get banned for stuff such as this. I'm going to take a guess and say you've never met eminence. You've never talked to him really, never dove into his mind. I'm sure his mental capacity is unknown to you. Don't comment on the intelligence of individuals with little to go on. It makes you look like a fool to others. It also shows that you're unable to have a civil discussion with anybody who shows some disagreement in what you're doing. THAT, in turn, shows immaturity. Add me to your "ignore list" if you so choose. I won't ever know, and I doubt I'll really be affected by it. Too bad that when people give you a hard time in person, you can't click "ignore". I suggest you learn to deal with things, my friend.

(eminence, I just wasted another 2 minutes...:) )
 

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You misinterpreted what I meant buddy. I said "you know so little" because he knows little about me. Even if I did mean it the way you thought I meant it, you guys do that same crap to me all the time, so you can't talk.
 

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MrConfidence said:
You misinterpreted what I meant buddy. I said "you know so little" because he knows little about me. Even if I did mean it the way you thought I meant it, you guys do that same crap to me all the time, so you can't talk.
Don't you ever wonder why so many people hate you?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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MrConfidence

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Nope, I don't much care if a few people on the internet who don't know me hate me. As for 'so many people', well let's just say I'm not hated by many people at all.
 

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MrConfidence said:
Nope, I don't much care if a few people on the internet who don't know me hate me.
weren't you the one that said that you had no friends?

comic_relief
 

MrConfidence

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Nope. That was probably one of your assumptions.
 

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MrConfidence said:
you guys do that same crap to me all the time, so you can't talk.
^^^^^^^^^
Generalization.

There are people who are honestly trying to help you, like myself, by giving you answers to your questions. They're good answers, they just aren't the answers you want, so you get negative.
 

MrConfidence

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I never actually did say anything bad about your advice. I just replied to Eminence when he said you wasted your time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MrC: dude u need to shut up for a while cuz u kno absolutely nothing Skilla Staz and Comic Relief give some of the best advice on here, the kinda stuff u need. so my advice start a new Screen Name and start respecting ppl and taking their advice
 

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The Columbus Myth said:
MrC: dude u need to shut up for a while cuz u kno absolutely nothing Skilla Staz and Comic Relief give some of the best advice on here, the kinda stuff u need. so my advice start a new Screen Name and start respecting ppl and taking their advice
Oh Christ, not another screen name. Hotmail will run out of email addresses at the rate he goes through them.

Okay, Mike, let me ask you something. What's the only constant in your entire time on this site? In other words, what has always stayed the same?
 

art of

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Sorry chap the game is over. I'm afraid your on this site for all of the wrong reasons. After reading your posts and topics all I see is a magnet for negative feedback. You claim you want advice, but tend to ignor it when its given to you. All you do is feed the people who decide to flame you out for your hypocritical posts in which you say your basically the apitomy of a Don Juan, but no one else seems to realize it.

This site is all about self improvement and helping each other succede. You don't seem to want to do either. You have a lot of self evaluating to do, but until then take your pitty whoring elsewhere. I'm not trying to flame you out, but you need to be brought out of your twisted views on life.
I don't know you personally but this is just what I see.

Also a tip of the hat to skilla. That post was helpful to me and I hope others are able to navigate through the crap to see it. I started a similar topic yesterday and I'd be appreciative if you'd respond to that so that it can help some other fools out too.
 

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Viper go home...thread closed.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Haha, man you are guys are such drama nerds, you take everything so seriously. All I have to say is if you say I don't take advice, you're wrong. If you look at the first page, you'll see I did take Distant Light's advice. Thanks to both Distant, and Skilla's post, I'm going to start approaching again.
 

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MrC, Ive tried to help you even offered to talk to you online, somehting I notice is that you make theese threads and it always turns into a flame war, you just endup quoting the dudes that bother you and dont actually take the advice you get, listen to the advice and workout a game plan, dont be stubburn, listen to people, a lot of the guys here are good at this, learn from them and just take a moment to not be stubburn and listen be rational dont go just like "ok that wouldnt work for me because of blah blah" try to make all the advice suit you. Hope you dont take this negatively, anyways its your loss.
 

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I'll give you a general advice:

You should approach the woman that your penis points to.

NOTE: This doesn't apply to porn or any other contraband material.

I'll give you specific advice too:

Your local movie theater is a great place to approach girls that you already know. Go there on saturday or friday evenings. You'll probably see one or two girls from your own school. Just go up to them and say, "Hey, i know you..!"
 

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iight your situation sound like mine. Approach at lunch first. And if she by herself (Maybe friends in line to get lunch or some ****) Dont waste no time hop on. There friends could be *******s and tell her some stuff about you. But if them friends going to be there Monday talk to her anyway **** em. Then the hallway thing a be more easier.

You have heard this from the king.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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