"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are their any more trustworthy people left?

SamTheHobit

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I know I personaly can never trust anyone. Not even my family.The few friends I had, have betrayed me. Iv'e proven it to myself over and over again that nobody can be trusted. Am I the only one on here who has trust 'issues' ?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Huffman

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The question is, if I respond, can you trust me?
 

L B

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People are trustworthy to a certain degree. Anytime someone can benefit greatly by betraying you, they probably will sooner or later. Of course there are exceptions, but don't give anyone the benefit of the doubt. You gamble each time your trust is place upon someone.

Don't place your belief, trust, happiness in anyone. And don't be a pessimist running around thinking the world is a bad place. There are small things in life that makes you happy, focus your mentality on that.
 

NorwegianDJ

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Having "trust-issues" is a self-fulfilling prophecy of noone being trustable. You should develop a lighter view of the world.
 
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