Are the females catching up?

[Dj Tiesto]

Check this, #2 on Amazon.com Bestsellers list:

"He's Just Not That Into You : The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys"

Read the reader reviews!

I guess showing no interest or playing hard to get doesn't correspond with the book's message.

Check what the authors are saying:

Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo are here to say that -- despite good intentions -- you're wasting your time. Men are not complicated, although they'd like you to think they are. And there are no mixed messages.

The truth may be He's just not that into you.

Unfortunately guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel.

 

[00Kevin]

no... if you tell her you are not interested then you won't get a BJ when you may need it.

they are correct, but the problem is that women won't make use of the information to their advantage. Women don't think logically they think with their emotions. So it really doesn't matter. they will keep doing what they are currently doing.

 

[MsThang]

The biggest problem is we're complicated and you're, well, not. When we say something to you chances are we mean something completely different so of course it's natural to assume that if you say something to us that you mean something completely different.

Sounds pretty logical, actually, don't you think?

 

[pantherine]

he's just not that into you

Originally posted by 00Kevin
no... if you tell her you are not interested then you won't get a BJ when you may need it.

You are SO right! I think women are pretty rational, when it comes down to it. But they don't know what's "good" for them -- like a BJ - because they're told by society that they can't be purely sexual -- we have to "be in a relationship." It's pathetic, but true. It takes a woman a few years and a couple laps around the block before she starts realizing that all she REALLY wants is good sex...

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by Dj Tiesto
Unfortunately guys are too terrified to ever directly tell a woman, "You're not the one." But their actions absolutely show how they feel.
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The funny thing is this is EXACTLY what most "nice guys" curse women for doing it. I believe they call it "leading on".

But when the shoe's on the other foot, they too are too wussy to make their intentions known.