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Are super attractive women always attracted to bad boys?

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G_Govan said:
I believe she was with him "despite" the abuse.

I think it's only in extreme rare cases where a woman actually desires abuse itself (even then there's a filter for a particular type of man to deal it out). These would be women who are mentally ill and/or damaged due to previous trauma unrelated to the current abusive man.

These "bad boys" have "attractive traits."

Danny DeVito could be the baddest dude in a biker gang but that doesn't mean he's f-cking swimsuit models because of it.
I mean do you guys think MOST visually attractive females are chasing very abusive men, one's who are most certainly will provide mental abuse but will also provide physical abuse too?

I don't think it's MOST, it's most likely a subset.
 

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