"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Are super attractive women always attracted to bad boys?

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G_Govan said:
I believe she was with him "despite" the abuse.

I think it's only in extreme rare cases where a woman actually desires abuse itself (even then there's a filter for a particular type of man to deal it out). These would be women who are mentally ill and/or damaged due to previous trauma unrelated to the current abusive man.

These "bad boys" have "attractive traits."

Danny DeVito could be the baddest dude in a biker gang but that doesn't mean he's f-cking swimsuit models because of it.
I mean do you guys think MOST visually attractive females are chasing very abusive men, one's who are most certainly will provide mental abuse but will also provide physical abuse too?

I don't think it's MOST, it's most likely a subset.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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