Are relationships meant to be this hard?

[choychoy12]

Are relationships meant to be hard???

Are you suppose to have so much turmoil. If you are together with a girl who is completely opposite than you? Different interests different personality. Are you suppose to just next her??

I've always heard the opposite's attract, the girl i'm with now, is completely different to me, yet we like each other so much, and yet we have so many issues.

And our relationship is said to be so hard.

Are they suppose to be like this? Or is it time for me to next this girl?? And find someone i'm more compatible with?

 

[frivolousz21]

no, and if it is..then get out!

serously if you are opposite..dont waste ur time!

good luck have a great weeekend!

 

[choychoy12]

I always heard that opposites are supposed to fill the void in each other life. Like you have weakness that are obvious strength in the other person.

Like if you are one to analyse and worry. Your attracted to a person who is more carefree about life.

and like wise, if your care free your attracted to someone who is more deep and meaningful.

What do you think?

 

[aftershock]

Originally posted by choychoy12

What do you think?

Depends if shes hot or not.

 

[frivolousz21]

no, thats not true!

you want great chemistry opposites do not ussually have great chemisty.


if you watch sports...2 diff guys ussually cause rifts in the team


as well as 2 diff MATES will cause rifts in friendship.


same with you and ur girl.


most people's best friend is there best friend because they are so alike?

and does it get old to be with him?


NOPE!

 

[wudiez]

So what your saying is its better just to go find people that are like you more?? But sure you will be more compatible, but isn't the excitement come from someone your opposite with, someone you can discover and someone you can learn to understand and love???

 

[frivolousz21]

well

opposite:

your accepting of all people

she is racist



you like movies

she doesnt


you like sports


she doesnt


you are atheist

she is devout catholic


wat kind of oppisites are we talking here?


you are funny>?


she isnt?

 

[wudiez]

opposites like..

I'm sensitive about words. She isn't.

I look at the little things, she doesn't.

I look at body language and voice tone, she doesn't.

I care about my future, she's out there for the moment.

I watch what i say, she says before she thinks.

I drink in moderation, she drinks till she vomits.

I like talking about deep things, about life about emotions about feelings about lifestyle.

She likes talking about what happening on the O.C..

I dislike when she gets touchy with her male friends, she doesnt care if she does.

Those kinds of opposites..

 

[frivolousz21]

so your more of mature boy/man..she is a teenger!



next her, seriously unless you just want a piece of ARSE, you should move on to women with a thinking mind..they are out there.

she isnt for you.

the best women ive dated is the ones I have a lot of the same ideas and ways of thinking with.