Are re bounds good or bad while trying to get over a bad relationship?

[fuko2007]

Alright so alot of yall have read my posts about a girl i have been seeing and how she has been acting. Everyone seems to say she is a B*tch and is snobish and treats me like **** so i should next her. But i have strong feelings for her and it hard.

Anyway yesterday we got into a sorta argument and she said i could go out and bang chicks just as long as she didnt find out about it. But we all know what that means in women terms ,...ill cut your **** off if you really do. I call my buddy up and we make a lake trip. He said were going to get you over this woman and called up some young girls . All legal but going from 39 to 19 or 20 is a big move for me. They were all HB8's solid.

Well i made my move on the blond and we gpt in the water statred kissing etc you know. Well made plans for tonight with her do something. My question is ..is this going to slow my process of healing myself from the hurt this other girl caused? Because its like im just filling one void with something else and not giving it time to close on its own. Or is this the best way to go? just want to do the best thing possible guys so i can get over this chick.

 

[TheException]

Everyone seems to say she is a B*tch and is snobish and treats me like **** so i should next her. But i have strong feelings for her and it hard.

Your biggest problem^

Why the he11 would you accept those standards for yourself? Theres millions of woman out there who are better looking and would treat you better.

My question is ..is this going to slow my process of healing myself from the hurt this other girl caused? Because its like im just filling one void with something else and not giving it time to close on its own. Or is this the best way to go? just want to do the best thing possible guys so i can get over this chick.

Nothing helps you get over an ex like banging another hot chick. Makes your ex seem really insignificant and opens your eyes....however if the new girl is fat/ugly it will probably make you miss the ex more. Dont bang a girl just to bang her. You said shes HB8, so that will suffice. Just dont go banging HB3s thinking its gonna help you get over your ex.

 

[fuko2007]

she is HB8 all day...just dont want to slow anything up . and what do you think it ment when she said go out bang other younger girls that want to have sex everyday? was that a **** test or her way of justifying a reason for her to go out and ***** around

 

[zinc4]

what do you think it ment when she said go out bang other younger girls that want to have sex everyday?

Who cares what it mean't she said it now hold her to it...go bang as many as possible...she sounds the woman of my dreams...i wish my GF would say that.....

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Every situation is different as far as emotional investment.

Fuko: Your addicted to this chick & her drama. Furthermore she's way older than you and while I'm sure she looks good for her age, there's no way she compares to a hot young girl.

You need to figure out:

1) Why you are stuck on such a toxic woman?

2) Why you lack enough self respect to walk away from a woman who treats you like shiat?


One thing you should never lose is your self respect. Once that is gone any girl will use it as a ticket to walk all over you and shove your face in the mud along the way.

Your way past that point.

Stop talking to this girl, go no contact. Delete her from your life.

Spend time with your buddies and enjoy the summer. And soon you will be over her and her circus.








PIMP

 

[fuko2007]

Every situation is different as far as emotional investment.

Fuko: Your addicted to this chick & her drama. Furthermore she's way older than you and while I'm sure she looks good for her age, there's no way she compares to a hot young girl.

You need to figure out:

1) Why you are stuck on such a toxic woman?

2) Why you lack enough self respect to walk away from a woman who treats you like shiat?


One thing you should never lose is your self respect. Once that is gone any girl will use it as a ticket to walk all over you and shove your face in the mud along the way.

Your way past that point.

Stop talking to this girl, go no contact. Delete her from your life.

Spend time with your buddies and enjoy the summer. And soon you will be over her and her circus.








PIMP

Thanks Pimp....good to hear the hard truth. And your right i need to figuer out why im stuck on her. Its a very good question and one im trying to figuer out as im writing this. I look at how much fun i had lastnight and reflect and think "wow its been along time since i had that much fun" and the weird thing is for that few hours i never thought of her ...not once...it was like a weight being lifted off of me man. She got behind me in traffic today i wanted to throw my car in reverse and ram the **** out of her. We both drive SUV's but mine is more like a tank haha. Still nights are lonely for me but i have a few plates starting to spin again. But keep laying on the advice. I'm alwas open for it.