"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are Pleated pants out of fashion?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Julius_Seizeher

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It depends on what you wear them with, they're either cool or they can make you look old.
 

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in my eyes i wouldn't wear them unless my job required it, or for a special occasion. can't think of the last time i saw someone wearing them at a club or anything if that's what your asking.
 

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wearing pleated pants is the equivelant to wearing a clip on tie.

please discard.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ya, flat front is the way to go when it comes to suit and dress pant selection.

Some single pleat suits can still be pretty slick if the cut is nice, but very very rarely. And if it's double or triple pleats, should probably toss them out since you may look like someone's grandfather in them heh.

And if it's khakis, then flat front all the way.
 

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We definitely need a fashion forum here to at least get the basics down.

I know since I have started wearing better shirts and pants and new shoes I am getting more attention from the ladies and respect as well. Today I was complimented on my new shirt it wasn't sexual but she said she really liked my shirt so something is definitely working so I am trying to get the pants down but looks like I will buy a couple more pair.
 

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I buy my son pleated pants so on the few occussions he has to dress up the bottom of his pants dont' look like a war zone.

grown men should not have to wear pleated pants. not making fun of anything.. alot of guys just dnot' pay attention to fashion. My dad was big into dressing and therefore I was fortunate enough to pick up some fashion sense from my dad.

yes we do need some type of fashion forum.

at least your asking questions. that's good.

Go get you 2 good pair of ralph lauren pants, 1 tan and 1 navy blue.
 
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