"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are otherwise accomplished women who take sex pics degraded?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This reminds me of an old saying:

Once you see one woman naked, you wanna see the rest of em naked!
 

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What's really making feminists grind their teeth is the overwhelming volume of 'self-shooters' pics on the net. No longer is it about evil men degrading women via porn, strippers or wet T contests, it's women voluntarily shooting themselves in the bathroom mirror or polishing their BFs cøck and posting the shots for the world to share.
 

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MDJ you have a serious issue that you've brought to our attention, and I think we need to stage an intervention.

It has to do with you reading the muffington post.

We can't let you keep reading that garbage. Its unhealthy for you.
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
What's really making feminists grind their teeth is the overwhelming volume of 'self-shooters' pics on the net. No longer is it about evil men degrading women via porn, strippers or wet T contests, it's women voluntarily shooting themselves in the bathroom mirror or polishing their BFs cøck and posting the shots for the world to share.
Yep, and more and more women will do it as time passes.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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scrouds said:
MDJ you have a serious issue that you've brought to our attention, and I think we need to stage an intervention.

It has to do with you reading the muffington post.

We can't let you keep reading that garbage. Its unhealthy for you.
:crackup:

Actually, as a very broad-minded person, I enjoy reading differing opinions. I feel that it enhances the philosophical discussions that us DJ's - as connoisseurs of intelligent discourse - like to be a part of.
 

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Here is an easy formula to remember:

If a semi attractive woman shows off her body and it turns men on then feminists will hate it.

If an old/ugly/fat woman shows off her body regardless if it turns men on, then feminists will love it.
 
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