First post here. Would like a solid opinion. I know what I want in a female, rather it’s sexual, or LTR, and I say no easily to something I don’t like rather it’s a business deal, friendship, or relationship.
This girl wants to be with me (28F). I’m 30.
I told her, besides flirting let’s see how we really interact. She came Wednesday night. Holy ****. She smelled, looked, just vibed like a total college liberal. How she dressed (Jean skirt but in the fashion of man kilts), with a shirt that looked like a 13 year old teenage video gaming kid would wear(loose). Nothing female about her hair, just threw some dark red color in it...
It was late, I said I’m tired. Red flag was there, but I wanted to see how many more red flags can pop up and if anything would change. Next day I worked, she sat ALL DAY reading a book. Didn’t go for a walk, take a shower, nothing. Just sat there. No food, nothing. I get done pretty hungry like let’s go out and eat and have a drink. She wears the same damn outfit I described up there...
I told her, I can’t take her seriously in that outfit, to put a pair of jeans on or some ****, which helped a little bit cause they were normal female jeans.
Next day we’re traveling for a meet with friends for the weekend.
She sees a “Jesus” bill board sign, and has to have a problem with it, while she was raised Christian. According to her “why are they shoving religion down our throats?”..but didn’t mention a single thing of LGBT or other crap.
At the gathering we all did something, cooked, cleaned, etc. I ask her to sweep something, she doesn’t know how to sweep. Her reply is nothing but “you’re not going to get laid”, at any anything I told her to do. My boiling point was when I asked her to wash a plate... she didn’t know how to wash a plate and complained.
I snatched the plate and washed in 5 seconds in front of her and in front of everyone told her that’s embarrassing and this was a big mistake. All she said was “why do you hate me so much?”... I told her straight up, everything factual what I’ve observed and she Uber’s away to the airport.
There are million things more I don’t want to list.
While the second night I told her to take a shower, and ****ed her and all, her sex sucked. Her “you not going to get laid” as if her ***** is gold, her actions, at that age... I can see why most of women single her age are single.
anyway, my friends think I’m an *******, that I’m too harsh, that she seemed nice. I don’t think I was an *******, I think I deserve a crown for dealing with this person for those few short days. Typically if I don’t like something about a female, I just softly next them right away and keep doing my stuff until a new one comes along.
so as my first post, based on what I said:
what is wrong with these women? Did college or parenting ruin them?
My job is to sleep, eat for energy to protect and shelter, and **** ***** to reproduce. Sadly we’re in this society where we have to be nice, but this nice **** is too much for a man to accept this type of behavior from a female IMHO.
This girl wants to be with me (28F). I’m 30.
I told her, besides flirting let’s see how we really interact. She came Wednesday night. Holy ****. She smelled, looked, just vibed like a total college liberal. How she dressed (Jean skirt but in the fashion of man kilts), with a shirt that looked like a 13 year old teenage video gaming kid would wear(loose). Nothing female about her hair, just threw some dark red color in it...
It was late, I said I’m tired. Red flag was there, but I wanted to see how many more red flags can pop up and if anything would change. Next day I worked, she sat ALL DAY reading a book. Didn’t go for a walk, take a shower, nothing. Just sat there. No food, nothing. I get done pretty hungry like let’s go out and eat and have a drink. She wears the same damn outfit I described up there...
I told her, I can’t take her seriously in that outfit, to put a pair of jeans on or some ****, which helped a little bit cause they were normal female jeans.
Next day we’re traveling for a meet with friends for the weekend.
She sees a “Jesus” bill board sign, and has to have a problem with it, while she was raised Christian. According to her “why are they shoving religion down our throats?”..but didn’t mention a single thing of LGBT or other crap.
At the gathering we all did something, cooked, cleaned, etc. I ask her to sweep something, she doesn’t know how to sweep. Her reply is nothing but “you’re not going to get laid”, at any anything I told her to do. My boiling point was when I asked her to wash a plate... she didn’t know how to wash a plate and complained.
I snatched the plate and washed in 5 seconds in front of her and in front of everyone told her that’s embarrassing and this was a big mistake. All she said was “why do you hate me so much?”... I told her straight up, everything factual what I’ve observed and she Uber’s away to the airport.
There are million things more I don’t want to list.
While the second night I told her to take a shower, and ****ed her and all, her sex sucked. Her “you not going to get laid” as if her ***** is gold, her actions, at that age... I can see why most of women single her age are single.
anyway, my friends think I’m an *******, that I’m too harsh, that she seemed nice. I don’t think I was an *******, I think I deserve a crown for dealing with this person for those few short days. Typically if I don’t like something about a female, I just softly next them right away and keep doing my stuff until a new one comes along.
so as my first post, based on what I said:
what is wrong with these women? Did college or parenting ruin them?
My job is to sleep, eat for energy to protect and shelter, and **** ***** to reproduce. Sadly we’re in this society where we have to be nice, but this nice **** is too much for a man to accept this type of behavior from a female IMHO.