Are My Dreams Real..or Are My Fears?

[Mr. DyckHead]

Lately I've being seing 2 of myself.

I see my first self, as me improving and I'm a total ladies man, I'm making the money I want to make, and I'm living the life I want to live.

My second self is just living an average life, making medicore cash, working everyday for 45 hours a week the rest of my life, and being with a medicore woman who might be cheating on me when I turn my back.

I've been trying to get to my first self, it's been very hard. It's like everytime I get my ducks in order, something bad happens to me and something gets thrown out of line. It's almost like a higher power is working against me to NOT succeed.

My second self seems easy to get to, but I would basically be waiting to die and not really enjoying my life.

I believe I have the talent to be good in sales, women, entertainment, and that my first self is the harvest of that. But then there's this voice that says "reality" is that I'll never accomplish those goals because "I've been trying and nothing's happened yet"

Can someone just be open and honest with me,....should I just settle for my 2nd self and stop this stupid dream of becoming my 1st self, even though I know I have the talent to become my 1st self?

 

[unorthodox]

You're afraid that you wouldn't be able to accomplish your goal. You are in fear of failure. Instead of thinking about the fear, think in terms of How to Get there...... I recommend double your dating, the book, and the tapes, basically everything you can get from DD.

 

[Mr. DyckHead]

Hey un, it's not that I fear my failure.

It's more that I've been trying and OTHER FORCES OF NATURE stops me. Like in sales, I keep bringing in customers, and my company doesn't handle them and the customers leave! I should have BEEN made money!

With women, I only get the top ones when I'm really being my 1st self, but when I get down, I can't keep those women....

What can I do? Maybe I'm really just my 2nd self and my 1st self is just a dream? I just want to know if I should just give this up while I still can? Because suicide has been on my mind for sometime.

 

[unorthodox]

It's more that I've been trying and OTHER FORCES OF NATURE stops me. Like in sales, I keep bringing in customers, and my company doesn't handle them and the customers leave! I should have BEEN made money!

So, your company influences your internal states? Why don't you leave the company? OR Why don't you learn to deal with this by learning a skill that will enable you to not get influenced by the outside?


Once again, get that material, it's so so powerful.

 

[Mr. DyckHead]

un what are you talking about? Listen dude,

I've been trying to be my 1st self, and it seems as though Nature is fighting against me....

My 2nd self is so easy to get to, can you just tell me which one is me?

 

[unorthodox]

How about this, go for the success, or NOT.

 

[Mr. DyckHead]

why can't you guys answer my fvckin posts? HELLO

 

[tr0ublemaker]

quit enslaving yourself to acheive your distant dreams, man

there's no fun in that

you can still be happy as an average joe..being an average joe doesnt entail having a mediocre quality of life..

 

[Mr. DyckHead]

wow troublemaker, real fvckin inspiring.

Can I get some quality fvckin help, on both of my posts. I'm getting so fvckin sick of you guys!!

I'm depressed, I'm hurt, I'm confused, and nobody wants to fvckin help me!!!

 

[ChrizZ]

wow troublemaker, real fvckin inspiring.

Can I get some quality fvckin help, on both of my posts. I'm getting so fvckin sick of you guys!!

I'm depressed, I'm hurt, I'm confused, and nobody wants to fvckin help me!!!

It is pretty simple. You accept the life you have as an average joe...

OR

You become a mature man that can make decisions on his own and become the man he wants to be. Crying about it doesn´t help, working on it does though. There are no problems, there are only solutions...
So quit flaming and work on it :kick:

 

[Mr. DyckHead]

Chris who am I? Can you just fvckin tell me?

Am I my 2nd self, so I should just let my dreams go?
Or am I my 1st self, so I should just continue embracing them?

Can you just tell me that, please?

 

[ChrizZ]

Chris who am I? Can you just fvckin tell me?

Am I my 2nd self, so I should just let my dreams go?
Or am I my 1st self, so I should just continue embracing them?

Can you just tell me that, please?

Nobody can answer that. The question isn´t who you are. The question is who do you want to be?

Let me ask you one simple question:

Has anything you´ve done in the past made your life better?

 

[Mr. DyckHead]

Chris I don't know okay. I;m really suicidual right now and this was just my last resort.

I have talent to become what I dream, but apparently Nature or God or whatever doesn' want me to get there, because he always DOES SOMETHING to fvck everything up for me.

And I'm just really fvckin sick of this shyt and really fvckin tired of this shyt.

 

[unorthodox]

I'm depressed, I'm hurt, I'm confused, and nobody wants to fvckin help me!!!

You ARE depressed, you ARE hurt, you ARE confused. You ARE also a dumb ass who has all these things worked out in your head. We can't rewire your brain, it is your job. That material can help you a lot, but only if you are ready for it. Wussy. :cheer:

 

[Mr. DyckHead]

UN, why are you callin me that for? What did I do to you??

You know what, fvck this...I'm just fvckin tired of living and I'm really just sick of all this shyt.

 

[ChrizZ]

Chris I don't know okay. I;m really suicidual right now and this was just my last resort.

I have talent to become what I dream, but apparently Nature or God or whatever doesn' want me to get there, because he always DOES SOMETHING to fvck everything up for me.

And I'm just really fvckin sick of this shyt and really fvckin tired of this shyt.

Why do you care then?
You have the talent, why don´t you use it?
Set some realistic goals and achieve them. If you´re truly determined you WILL achieve them, no matter how many times you fail.

There is a famous quote by Michael Jordan:
"I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."

Do you think Michael Jordan would have become the best NBA star if he gave up playing Basketball when he lost his first game?

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Daddy what are you saying? Why are you doing this to me, what did I do to you?

WHERE ARE THESE PEOPLE COMING FROM THAT SAYS IT WORKS??

It's like the crowd that says Creatine doesn't work, and that CReatine fvcks up your kidneys...WITHOUT EVEN TRYING IT. They relay on their scientific theories to say creatine doesn't work!

Then those who TRIED CREATINE, most say it works GREAT! AND THEY HAVE NO FVCKIN PROBLEMS...some people say they had problems, but it's more positive testimonies then negative ones from THOSE WHO TRIED IT..

AND THE SAME HERE.

I'm soooo god damn confused.

One side says it works and I could make money BECAUSE others are using it and tried it and it works.

The other side is just the voice of he scientists saying it doesn't work because of some scientic theory, etc..

what is it's a break through?

AND DADDY PLEASE ANSWER, " Why did the customers say it worked? The school systems, etc....WHY DADDY WHY???"

This is a sample discussion I had with this fellow on another thread in the main page. Today! And he registered. TODAY!

He's a TROLL!

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

UN, why are you callin me that for? What did I do to you??

You know what, fvck this...I'm just fvckin tired of living and I'm really just sick of all this shyt.

TROLL!

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Chris I don't know okay. I;m really suicidual right now and this was just my last resort.

I have talent to become what I dream, but apparently Nature or God or whatever doesn' want me to get there, because he always DOES SOMETHING to fvck everything up for me.

And I'm just really fvckin sick of this shyt and really fvckin tired of this shyt.

TROLL!

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Lately I've being seing 2 of myself.

I see my first self, as me improving and I'm a total ladies man, I'm making the money I want to make, and I'm living the life I want to live.

My second self is just living an average life, making medicore cash, working everyday for 45 hours a week the rest of my life, and being with a medicore woman who might be cheating on me when I turn my back.

I've been trying to get to my first self, it's been very hard. It's like everytime I get my ducks in order, something bad happens to me and something gets thrown out of line. It's almost like a higher power is working against me to NOT succeed.

My second self seems easy to get to, but I would basically be waiting to die and not really enjoying my life.

I believe I have the talent to be good in sales, women, entertainment, and that my first self is the harvest of that. But then there's this voice that says "reality" is that I'll never accomplish those goals because "I've been trying and nothing's happened yet"

Can someone just be open and honest with me,....should I just settle for my 2nd self and stop this stupid dream of becoming my 1st self, even though I know I have the talent to become my 1st self?

TROLL!