Are men who sow their wild oats acting cowardly?

[MatureDJ]

An interesting take from a rabbi (oy!)

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/rabbi...il&utm_content=BlogEntry&utm_term=Daily Brief

 

[Strelok]

While Gays Push to Marry, Heterosexuals Fear Commitment

Tell the rabbi where the problem is in heterosexual marriage, Im sure that his people knows well the value of money.

 

[Warrior74]

Huff Post = liberal feminist rag. Actions not words. Gays don't have child support and have lots of disposable income. They will learn to fear the courts soon enough. Dumbasses. I'm sure divorce lawyers in NYC just jizzed in their pants at the thought of wealthy gays divorcing.

As for this guy. He sounds really confused about marriage and about the gay life style. Being a. a jew. b. a rabbi. c. a child of divorce, d. unable to recognize that lesbianism and feminism go hand in hand e. unaware or unwilling to discuss the legal and financial ramifications of divorce and why it would prompt men not to marry and f. straight up blaming men in this article whilst being a man, I'm gonna have to say he is pretty much fvcked in the head on this situation.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear All,
Pretty much agree with Warrior....A rabbi?....just as well a Priest...what do they know of life?...Commitment?with the Family Law courts poised to ram an assagai up your rectum....Great to see you have a sense of humour young Abey.

 

[squirrels]

Discretion is the better part of valor. You don't embark upon impossible quests/impossible relationships, potentially hurting yourself and other people emotionally, in a vain attempt to prove something to yourself.

I find it comical that most people don't understand WHY gays want to get married. It's largely for the tax benefits and other legal issues such as rights of survivorship and power of attorney.

Meanwhile, all of these straight people think it's about emotional commitment. In all truth, gay people are more likely to get married for the RIGHT reasons; because they're already social pariahs for their decision to be openly homosexual, marriage isn't some vain attempt to prove their desirability as a mate, as it is with a sadly large number of straight men and women.

 

[mrRuckus]

I'd be pissed if I were gay. You have a perfectly good system with few headaches and next thing you know your boyfriends are pressuring you to get married and you don't have the "it's illegal" excuse anymore.

It sucks enough dealing with women doing that. Every damn girl i date insists on mentioning marriage so damn early. I just stopped seeing one girl over it because she thought knowing me for 3 months meant it was time to discuss marriage possibilities because her damn friend met a guy at the same time as me and they just got engaged. THREE months! Ridiculous. I get punished with this conversation because some afc douche is willing to enslave himself in 3 months.