"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are men shaving now??

Men: do you shave your groin bald?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 40.0%
  • No

    Votes: 9 60.0%
  • I'd rather not say

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    15

bigneil

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Tonight the stripper told me her darkest secret ever: that most of the guys she's been with have shaven their groin. Before I rant, let me conduct an unbiased poll (for men only): do you shave down there?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I trim, I don't shave because that can cause irritation, rashes and spots.
 

spiegel549

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My close click of guys friends I have are all in super fit shape (including myself) and we shave that **** off. 99% of the men in my gym I see with shaven chests, arms, (some even there legs)

Personally shaving your arm pits (unless your a body builder) is just gay.

I keep my pubic area clean. I don't dare bring a actual razor blade near that area but I will take hair clippers and just buzz that **** off. Makes sex and blow jobs all the more better, and I have had a lot of women compliment about it.

also look at any male porn star, they keep that **** buzzed down for a reason :up:
 

typical

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When I was younger I used to be hair free from the neck down. Mind you I was an 85kg kickboxer that had to drop 10 kilos to fight in the middleweight division, so any and all weight loss (including hair) was taken into account.

You actually get rid of all the hair on your body and it can be nearly half a kg to a full kg of weight depending on how much hair you have on your body.
 

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bigneil said:
Tonight the stripper told me her darkest secret ever: that most of the guys she's been with have shaven their groin. Before I rant, let me conduct an unbiased poll (for men only): do you shave down there?
Yes. And to be frank as far as I can tell in our locker room, the majority of men does. My girl thinks it's more fun to give *******s when I shave, so who am I to object?

Also, I see that you are still with the stripper..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quiksilver

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I trim, but I understand there's lots of guys who shave their whole body to look pretty.


Here I was, thinking it was a womans job to look pretty.
 

Down Low

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I can't for the life of me imagine why any grown man would want to look like a prepubescent boy. It's not just faggy, it's pedo-faggy. Major daddy issues. Very disgusting that guys actually gym rat around to try to look for other guys who peacock their c0cks.

When I discover that a woman shaves her twaddle, it's no contact from then on. There can be no good in associating with a woman who think's she's a p0rn star.
 

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I trim. I tried shaving a couple of times but it was irritating as hell. Women appreciated it because you don't get piss and sweat trapped in your crotch sponge.
 
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