She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
not only is it NOT off, they CAN'T. they are physically inable to have sex for the sake of having sex because the chemical that makes us have sex for the sake of having sex, women do not have an abundance of.FairShake said:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I've never been a woman, so I don't know if you're right or not. I know women don't have the testosterone we do, but I'm at least skeptical that women never have sex for the sake of having sex. I agree that it not usually their prime motivation.backbreaker said:
Nope, got to disagree with you there. I can cite lots of examples of men cheating where, yeah, getting laid was what they wanted, but it was also because the other woman was sweet to them and treated them better and filled an emotional need that their SO didn't meet.Rollo Tomassi said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
With regard to female masturbation, I have a theory that women are becoming more sexually driven in general due to increased testosterone levels. I recently watched a report discussing the fact that many women's t-levels are a lot higher than normal these days.... but that's a topic for another thread.zekko said:
I was actually being facetious. The internet is sh!t for sarcasm.zekko said:
