Are hot women secretly AFC?

[bigneil]

I just broke up with my gf and couldn't believe how AFC she went on me.

It occurred to me that, because she was always pretty, she never had to learn how to attract someone. More importantly, she didn't seem to understand just how unattractive it is to beg and cry, or to act clingy or needy. Desperation is not sexy (she said "I love you" and I pulled a Han Solo).

This was such an important lesson because I realized that, although women are very different from men and although they might have many advantages in the dating pool, it is equally repelling for either sex to act AFC.

 

[chocococonut]

I couldn't agree with you more. Hot women are so used to being bossy, b**chy, cold, distant that they don't really know how to treat the man they want to be with. I had an ex girlfriend who was super hot and she always acted extremely clingy, needy, cried a lot, and was extremely insecure. I have met a lot of hot women and noticed some similarities. They all wont know how to treat a man better than the uglier chicks. Because these girls are so used to being catered to, that when they find a man with balls and confidence to know how to make the girl do the catering, hot women don't know what to do. My new girlfriend is also an HB was the one who pressured an "official" relationship because we started sleeping together. At first she was a cold, hard ass who didn't seem like she gave 2 cents about whether I left her or not...I courted the crap outta her and when I became a bit flighty, cold, and stopped caring as much, she became more anxious and started to worry. After that, she eventually slept with me and I was able to get that from her. Don't want to rant too long...But yeah, hot women are used to being around BETAS and weaksauce men that THEY are the ones who get to be the bigger person. However, when a strong ALPHA comes along, they don't know what to do, how to react, why this man is so strong and how to keep him around...

 

[Marvin Gaye]

Seems like that to me bigneil. Not all of course--obviously there are girls who know they're sexy, and manipulate accordingly
But I find


*smokes pipe*

that when you carry yourself well most women are unfamiliar with that and their b*tch defense shatter easily; it's pretty entertaining to see a very attractive girl tripping over herself to try and talk to you

 

[Alex DeLarge]

I was thinking about this earlier today too lol. All of the hot women that I date will usually give me the LJBF or go no contact on me after the 4th or 5th date. (I have not fvcked any of them.. I think that's why lol). But once they give me the LJBF thing I never talk to them again.. Or rarely reply to them if they call or text me. Then they give me the "Do you hate me" "what did I do wrong" "Can we talk about this" BS. It's pretty funny.

I think all girls are just naturally like this though. No matter how hot or ugly they are (or you). When they build up attraction for you it's hard for them to see you go.

 

[jafyk]

@ Marvin Gaye. What's a 19 yr old doing smoking pipe? lol. Is this all part of the DJ prop?

 

[loveshogun]

(she said "I love you" and I pulled a Han Solo).

I thought "pulling a Han Solo" was blowing up the Death Star, and then getting laid by a thousand grateful space wh*res. Boy, was I wrong.

 

[Atom Smasher]

I thought "pulling a Han Solo" was blowing up the Death Star, and then getting laid by a thousand grateful space wh*res. Boy, was I wrong.

No, it's more like getting frozen in carbonite while a big, moaning, hairy beast remains free to get the girl. I guess DJ tactics are of limited value in space.