"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are hot girls difficult to find in the US after you finish college?

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I went to a big state university with a great sports program, seems like almost every week I would see a girl that was at least a 7 on the looks scale. Pretty faces and nice bodies, as a guy who has a thing for white girls there was nothing better than college town USA.

Now after college I find it nearly impossible to find good looking women in the United States.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbeat

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no way bro u can find hot girls n e place that r out of college all over the country. get out n find em. good luck bro.
 

VladPatton

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Hot girls are everywhere, but they're less convenient to acquire after college!
 

Zarky

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There is never again as high a concentration of young, attractive women as in college. Unless you work in some field like modeling or porn...
 

princess_124

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Oh my God!! I also love white guys<3 ....that's why I love going to my uni, it's full of cute, muscular white guys
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PeasantPlayer

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A lot of people may disagree with me, but it is my belief that most people are unattractive. I would say 90 percent of the world is unattractive
 
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