"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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are girls with lots of friends on facebook/myspace attention *****s?

donjuanapprentice01

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It's late at night and I am browsing through some of the profiles on facebook (friends of friends, that sort of things) What I have noticed is that some chicks on there have an ENORMOUS list of friends (I'm talking 400+ on their friends list) Is this a sign of attention *****s? No one can keep that many friends.

Maybe if you meet a chick it might not be a bad idea to stay away from the ones keeping a gigantic list of friends.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Kal0051

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maybe, maybe not. Girls tend to add ppl they've only met once on facebook so I don't think you can assume much from that.
 
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