"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are girls really that bad in major cities and outside the south

Dhoulmagus

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I live in a conservative area, so I am curious. There's a club in a liberal hipster part of town and I would be scared to have sex with any of those girls. My Yankee female friends have way more sexual partners than most girls I know down here. I went to Chicago bar and this random girl literally asked to make out with me. That has never happened to me before down here. In addition, my friend stayed in Charlotte, NC over the summer with some elementary school teacher from Up state New York. This woman was fine with having One night stands with different guys from bars every weekend despite her profession. Sluts here are either labeled and marked by society or just stick to whoring around a close circle of guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dhoulmagus said:
I live in a conservative area, so I am curious. There's a club in a liberal hipster part of town and I would be scared to have sex with any of those girls. My Yankee female friends have way more sexual partners than most girls I know down here. I went to Chicago bar and this random girl literally asked to make out with me. That has never happened to me before down here. In addition, my friend stayed in Charlotte, NC over the summer with some elementary school teacher from Up state New York. This woman was fine with having One night stands with different guys from bars every weekend despite her profession. Sluts here are either labeled and marked by society or just stick to whoring around a close circle of guys.
Teacher + NY'er = many ONS'.

Can't get a better (ie easier) combo than that lol.
 

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I generally like Southern girls except for the fact that they tend to be more overweight in the South and sometimes a little too "country" for my liking, but they're pretty feminine for the most part.

Yeah I steer clear of the hipster parts of town unless I'm looking to drink beer lol. Hipster chicks don't dig clean cut and athletic alpha type guys. You generally see them with frail looking guys in skinny jeans with unkempt hair and shaggy beards. Hipster chicks are also feminist for the most part and not what an alpha wants. They tend to have an excessive number of tattoos, piercings, and don't really fit the feminine type of woman most of us are looking for.
 

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old married dude said:
I generally like Southern girls except for the fact that they tend to be more overweight in the South and sometimes a little too "country" for my liking, but they're pretty feminine for the most part.

Yeah I steer clear of the hipster parts of town unless I'm looking to drink beer lol. Hipster chicks don't dig clean cut and athletic alpha type guys. You generally see them with frail looking guys in skinny jeans with unkempt hair and shaggy beards. Hipster chicks are also feminist for the most part and not what an alpha wants. They tend to have an excessive number of tattoos, piercings, and don't really fit the feminine type of woman most of us are looking for.
Exactly lol. I see some beautiful hipster women with the most bum looking guys.
 
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