“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are girls into virgins?

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Yeah, I'm a 21 year old virgin. More by choice than anything. I come from a pretty conservative religious background. Lately all my friends have been talking about is getting laid and whatnot. It's kinda starting to bug me. Are girls attracted more to virgins or guys with experience? oh and save the sh!t talking comments please
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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powpow

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Well, coming from the same background, I have come to this unfortunate conclusion.

Yes, girls love virgins. To marry.

So while you are saving it, most of the girls, including most likely your future wife, are getting theyre pvssies pounded by rock hard random yogurt slangin rock logs. It is the unfortunate truth in todays society.

Anyway, go to church and find a girl. The odds are much better there that you find a girl that shares your moral values. Good luck outside there, the world is fcked buddy.
 

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Are girls into virgins?

No, they're not. A girl who is a virgin herself and really likes you might tell you differently, but she would be politely lying. Women want a man who will take charge and knows what he is doing. It balances out their own emotional awkwardness. Other than the poor sex, virgins tend to become codependent and clingy with their first partner. No one wants that, male or female.

Although I don't think all of religion is a lie, I certainly believe that everything religion will tell you about sex is a lie. If you stay a virgin until marriage, then pop out some kids and never get divorced, think about who benefits most from that scenario - it's the church. That's why religion as an institution has those rules, for its own self-preservation.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Are girls into virgins?

No, they're not. A girl who is a virgin herself and really likes you might tell you differently, but she would be politely lying. Women want a man who will take charge and knows what he is doing. It balances out their own emotional awkwardness. Other than the poor sex, virgins tend to become codependent and clingy with their first partner. No one wants that, male or female.

Although I don't think all of religion is a lie, I certainly believe that everything religion will tell you about sex is a lie. If you stay a virgin until marriage, then pop out some kids and never get divorced, think about who benefits most from that scenario - it's the church. That's why religion as an institution has those rules, for its own self-preservation.
Yes, yes, what he just said!
 

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I really couldn't imagine a girl being interested in a virgin.

We're the leaders in relationships (well, we're SUPPOSED to be). We're the experienced ones who they come to for advice and comfort and guidance. I don't think a woman likes to view her man as "inexperienced" in anything. Especially sex.

When I was a virgin, I just lied to the first girl and told her I had more experience than I did.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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the world is fcked buddy.
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Couldn't have said it any better.
 

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I read a research that pointed that you can see the level of self-confidence in both girls and guys according to their first sexual experience.

It appear that the more a guy is self confident the early he lose his virginity while the opposite is true for girls.
I sincerly don't know what to learn from this but it actualy make sense,the cool confident guy usually score first as much as the ugly/fat girl who need to compensate for her low value.

To answer to the OP,the answer is no,girls are not into virgins mostly cause they want what other girls want,and if someone is virgin well you get it.
They just have a sheep mentality that actually saved their lifes in the past where the group was the only protection for a weak bodied individual.
 

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Short answer? No, girls aren't into virgins.

Long answer? Girls are attracted to guys that take charge and know what their doing. Maybe you'll meet a girl that's willing to cut you some slack if she's really into you (usually because your very good looking. But I doubt that would last long, eventually she'd meet a guy that's dominant and he'll make her wet.
 

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duke104 said:
Yeah, I'm a 21 year old virgin. More by choice than anything. I come from a pretty conservative religious background. Lately all my friends have been talking about is getting laid and whatnot. It's kinda starting to bug me. Are girls attracted more to virgins or guys with experience? oh and save the sh!t talking comments please
One of the things you have to do is disqualify yourself as a potential suitor. You have the perfect line and neg. Suppose you're vibing with a broad. Things are going well, then you hit her with this:

Duke: You're cool. I would make you my girlfriend. Natrually, the chick will get an ego boost and smile, then you hit her with the take away.

Duke:If I wasn't a virgin.

Don't dwell on being a virgin or get in moral and philosphical discussions about chasity. Throw and go. Of course, she want to know the reasons behind your virginity, but you're not going to tell her. If she persists, say "Damn. you're being nosey. In a playful type of way. All the while you're kinoing her.

Also tell her, if see's good and proves herself worthy, you'll allow her to "boldly go where no woman has gone before." Remember, never confirm, nor deny you're a virgin. It will pique the a woman's interest and seperate you from the crowd. Try it.
 

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powpow said:
Well, coming from the same background, I have come to this conclusion.

Yes, girls love virgins. To marry.

Anyway, go to church and find a girl. The odds are much better there that you find a girl that shares your moral values. Good luck outside there, the world is fcked buddy.
I agree with this but I have to add that your not responsible to your friends for your actions but to God and your family. You shouldn't base your personal life decisions on the actions of your friends, or what happens in the news or in the world. I believe in 100% personal responsibility, so if you do start doing what your friends are doing then it is open for me or anyone to question your character and your sincerity to your faith.

I don't know what your faith is but I would check with God through the bible before making and drastic life decisions.

You all forget to mention that each and everyone of us is part of this world, and as long as someone lives right and makes the right decision then there is still some good in this world. It's our choice as individuals to see the good in the world and in each person.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Funny thing is, even if you sleep with a pro, you'd still be a virgin, because it be a workout and not an intimate encounter.
 

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during serious discussions, from what i gather with girls no they want an experienced girl that will lead them, know how to rail their brains out, yada yada yada

but I love fooling around with biddies and telling them i have no idea what I'm doing, I'm not deflowered yet etc. Like San Jose said it's a lot of fun, try it out.!!
 

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fvck this defeatist bull sh!t, work on yourself and transform into a stud, hit the gym, do whatever it takes, girls won't give a fvck if you are a virgin, get drunk the first few times and just do it, if they don't like it or say you sucked then forget them, it doesn't matter, play your cards right, tell them your only experience is while drunk so you really don't know what you are doing, I have heard countless stories of girls that get turned on by telling them they have more experience than you and letting them take charge, porn movies play this story countless times, you would be surprised how many mid 20's virgins there are as well...so don't listen to this BS
 

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Drdeee said:
Funny thing is, even if you sleep with a pro, you'd still be a virgin, because it be a workout and not an intimate encounter.
This is an idiotic statement. Guys lose their virginity when they put their penis into a vagina. Girls lose their virginity when a penis is put into their vagina. Period, point blank. All this exception bullsh!t is nonsense. That is why some women have fvcked 300 guys in real life but they'll say they've only been with 3. They come up with a bunch of bullsh!t exceptions.

"I was drunk so it wasn't real sex"

"He didn't call me back in the morning so it wasn't real sex"

"He didn't kiss me so it wasn't real sex"

"He wasn't my boyfriend so it wasn't real sex"

"I decided I didn't like him after we had sex, so it wasn't real sex"

Get the FVCK out of here. Penis to vagina, or penis to butthole is sex. By that logic a porn star who gets gangbanged, DP'd and *******'d by 200 guys didn't really have sex. Those homos in the gay bars, bathhouses or bathrooms having loveless sex with random strangers must not be really having sex either. But for some reason they still seem to catch AIDS from not having sex. I wonder how that works.

A real virgin, not an imaginary fairytale technicality-exception virgin, is someone who has never had any kind of sexual contact.
 

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I lost my virginity when I was eighteen. The girl I was seeing at the time and I were messing around in the car and then she stopped me when I tried to finger her. I asked her "are you a virgin?" and she said no. She then asked me if I was and I said maybe.

The second time we hung out after meeting, I accidentally dropped a box of condoms from my pocket. She saw them and laughed, then I told her to drive me somewhere and told her to pull over to an empty parking lot. She did and she was riding me for a looong time. I got a text later that night saying "you're the biggest I've ever had ; ] "

She later confessed she phucked me so fast because I was a virgin, but that I gave off a player vibe. Had I not been a virgin she would have run like the wind!

PS: I've only had sex with one girl and trust me it's ok. The less sex you have, the more potential you have with a girl who has good moral values. The more sex you have, the more potential you have with the rest of the girls in this phucked world. It is as simple as that.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I could have lost my virginity multiple times when I was 11 years old and that trend continued until I was about 18.

Sadly I was always a bit nervous and apprehensive, and backed out every time.

Probably would be a totally different guy now if I had had the balls to do it back then.
 

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Robyn923b said:
I lost my virginity when I was eighteen. The girl I was seeing at the time and I were messing around in the car and then she stopped me when I tried to finger her. I asked her "are you a virgin?" and she said no. She then asked me if I was and I said maybe.

The second time we hung out after meeting, I accidentally dropped a box of condoms from my pocket. She saw them and laughed, then I told her to drive me somewhere and told her to pull over to an empty parking lot. She did and she was riding me for a looong time. I got a text later that night saying "you're the biggest I've ever had ; ] "

She later confessed she phucked me so fast because I was a virgin, but that I gave off a player vibe. Had I not been a virgin she would have run like the wind!

PS: I've only had sex with one girl and trust me it's ok. The less sex you have, the more potential you have with a girl who has good moral values. The more sex you have, the more potential you have with the rest of the girls in this phucked world. It is as simple as that.
my point exactly, some guys that have fvcked 50 girls can be total AFC niceguys and some guys that are damn near close to being virgins can look like the biggest players ever

bottom like here is that the OP is worried about what a potential fvck might think and that is all wrong from the start, you are the prize, wgaf what some broad who just rode you or DT'd your c0ck thinks :rockon:
 
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