Ok I'll try and keep it short. I just moved to Toronto and I'm finding that girls are giving me nothing. I haven't actually tried to pick any up or anything, but I guess I'm considered an above average looking guy based on what girls have told me in the past and where I used to live every now and then I'd know a girl was interested by the way they acted - like eye contact, or looking at me for awhile, or coming up to me, but here this is pretty rare. Granted I've only been here a week or so, but I'm just wondering is this sorta thing common to Toronto/GTA? Also not sure if this makes any difference, but I was in HS before and moved to Toronto to go to university. The only chick here in university that has expressed interest in me was some UB3 that asked to see my room and wanted to know whether or not I had a bed. But I definately wasn't about to hit it. Even when I'm around the couple friends I've made the chicks seem to by in large ignore me. Whats up.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Are girls in different cities more or less open? About Toronto or any city
- Thread starter BlahUgh
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
AsianPlayboy
Banned
I was just in Toronto helping out someone.
It's fine. Maybe the girls aren't as hot as some other cities, but it wasn't particularly hostile or cold. In fact, in some ways it was actually better.
I think it's just you.
It's fine. Maybe the girls aren't as hot as some other cities, but it wasn't particularly hostile or cold. In fact, in some ways it was actually better.
I think it's just you.
wolfsbaneforever
Don Juan
There a chill in the air, of secrets untold
Yes, I would be much in debt, if my fellow DJs (AFCs may not apply) would let me know what they think of women in Toronto, Canada.
Yes, I would be much in debt, if my fellow DJs (AFCs may not apply) would let me know what they think of women in Toronto, Canada.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
It really depends. If the girl grew up in the city, I guarantee you she will be a bit more messed up mentally than girls who didn't grow up in an urban city (urban cities are anything larger than 250k people.)
Of all the girls I've dated from the city, the ones that seem to be less jaded and more optimistic about life are women who live out of urban areas. The only good I see about urban city girls is that some of them tend to be less materialistic. I speak for myself here, so I dunno about others.
Proof? Go watch Sex and the City and see how f@cked up women are living in an urban city thinking they can take what they want and dismiss those that don't require anymore.
Of all the girls I've dated from the city, the ones that seem to be less jaded and more optimistic about life are women who live out of urban areas. The only good I see about urban city girls is that some of them tend to be less materialistic. I speak for myself here, so I dunno about others.
Proof? Go watch Sex and the City and see how f@cked up women are living in an urban city thinking they can take what they want and dismiss those that don't require anymore.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wolfsbaneforever
Don Juan
Hey Look my fellow DJs, I understand fully the power of
a) being the DJ Bible
b) being confidance
c) being a man
I also understand the weakness of:
a) negative thinking
b) wussiness
c) needyness
In no way, shape or form do I concede that one should let Toronto women get you down.
But, I will not tolerate a lie as opposed to the truth.
Indeed, if one has money and looks one should be able to score chicks in this city. One should be able to do so anywhere on the planet.
I am just saying I (after 34 years) do not find the women who live in Toronto that forward, that friendly. These women have been conditioned to be "colder" than other women of the world for whatever reasons (I have my theories but they mean s h i t when one is going to score).
So BlahUgh & Bussey I hear you. You are not alone and you are not crazy.
Unfortunately, you will have to become Torontonianized.
You will have to become a cold mother-fcuker when it comes to women here. Thats all they know.
a) being the DJ Bible
b) being confidance
c) being a man
I also understand the weakness of:
a) negative thinking
b) wussiness
c) needyness
In no way, shape or form do I concede that one should let Toronto women get you down.
But, I will not tolerate a lie as opposed to the truth.
Indeed, if one has money and looks one should be able to score chicks in this city. One should be able to do so anywhere on the planet.
I am just saying I (after 34 years) do not find the women who live in Toronto that forward, that friendly. These women have been conditioned to be "colder" than other women of the world for whatever reasons (I have my theories but they mean s h i t when one is going to score).
So BlahUgh & Bussey I hear you. You are not alone and you are not crazy.
Unfortunately, you will have to become Torontonianized.
You will have to become a cold mother-fcuker when it comes to women here. Thats all they know.