"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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are girls hypocrites or am I dense-Pick One

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Hey Guys,
First of all, I did everything right asking out this girl in my class(posture, confidence) she said was in a relationship-I was dissapointed but of couse s**t happens, just add it to the pile. This other girl, while she considers me a friend and "Nice Guy, Not A Nerd"-everytime people mentioning going out with me she blunting says "no thanks." Doesn't that make this situation with girl#2 hypocritical or I am just not reading this situation right.(By the way, I am just trying to some confidence back after getting rejected twice.) The help would appeciated. Thanks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You're the nice guy. Most girls will consider you as a friend and nothing more.

There are girls who won't reject you, but good luck finding them. One of them types will be my wife and mother to my future children one day.

You can either kick the nice guy out of you or get buff - either will work.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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nice vid MusclyJerk :)

you and Warboss Alex are my main inspirations for hittin the gym and creating a great lifestyle for myself. cant WAIT to get back in there
 
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soon as I get a lil income, I'm rejoining the gym

I disagree with men having to persue all the time; anyone can get a phone number. I wanna make a lifestyle where women persue ME, get MY phone number, and call ME for sex. With what I knew before, and now seein that video where she is WORKING TO GET *YOUR* NUMBER, I'm certain a terrific bod is a big part of this.

keep up the good work :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tomcat.. everyone has some hypocricy in them, us included. But, am not sure the gal who wants to be just friends is expression hypocricy...

You asking your friend out would change the friendship. Becoming romantic with you means giving up a friendship, if it doesn't work out. And, romance usually does not last forever. She could well be anxious about giving up a friendship. Women are often more about addressing anxieties, than making tough choices.

If you want to be more than friends with her, you'll have to make that choice for the two of you. You'd make yourself a romance candidate, and therefore change the relationship for better or for worse. You can search here for lots of ways to do that.

So, get clear in your mind which way you want to go, friends or something else. It's not common to go back to just friends if the romance doesn't work out, so consider what's at stake.
 
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tomcat2007 said:
Hey Guys,
By the way, I am just trying to some confidence back after getting rejected twice.) The help would appeciated. Thanks.
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everytime youve been rejected it means your skills are leveling up,,everytime yove been rejected study the reason and remove that obstacle...rejection =learning...
the onlything to bypass any discouragement is to be aware that it will never happened again bcoz you know what is wrong and you fixed it.
 
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