"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Black_Italian

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he was professing how i was the girl he really wanted to be with, hes so sorry for hurting me, he wrote me a song, ect. i forgave.
Beo Beo Beo Beo Beo Neo Neo (sound of an alarm)
AFC ALERT!!
AFC ALERT!!
AFC ALERT!!

Next him and find a real man.

He wrote you a song :crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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christz

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to all the trolls posting how women can't post here get over yourselvs, some long time members not many are females.

on that note, a lot of guys here are jaded hayley, but yeah the answer would be NEXT

because i dunno what's considered "cheating" to you but if kissing is a part of cheating then you've just been played because he cheated got what he probably wanted and can still have you as well

put this chump in his spot and next him, let him write all the sad sappy stupid a$$ poems, songs about you all he wants.
 

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Plus he lied to you about deleteing the number whats to say he didnt lie about the kissing. It could be more than kissing
 

MetalFortress

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Originally posted by josekortez
Women should be banned from this forum because they only come here to throw salt in our respective games.

Hayley79 will probably appear on Oprah or Dr. Phil next week talking about Don Juans.
Go crawl back into the moron cave.
 

madgame

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he for sure isnt ready for that, and we are both away at grad program and i am a couple years ahead of him, so we will have to part ways in one years time anyway when i graduate.
Damn you sound like a good (female) friend of mine. To make a long story short: she always hooks up with guys she knows are leaving anyways and then is like "do you think he's serious about it?" plus she says something like "I wanna be with him but we're going to go our seperate ways in a couple of months anyways, because he's leaving".

Seriously when you girls say stuff like that you dont really mean it, but you do hope there'll be a long-term relationship (even if it's long-distance), right? I mean otherwise there would be no reason to bother trying to get the guy to commit anyways....wassup with that?lol

Oh and...I dont agree that a guy at 21 cant commit because he pops boners all day..I guess I could have committed when I was 21 and really liked that girl (tho Im kinda lucky it didnt happen, now) and I know quite a few guys who are ready to commit at that age. However these guys are never really the type of guys who cheat on their g/f...Latter ones are (usually) those that are probably not ready to commit..or maybe are ready to commit but then want a break after 2 years or so so they can still **** around a little before getting serious about it ;-).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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themanwithnoname

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Word to the women, all the guy wants is your loyalty to him and great sex (oral sex, being aggressive sometimes), don't do that, he looks elsewhere.
 

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Isn't having one solitary place on this planet that is unspoiled by female logic (if you want to call it that) the point of this site?:confused:

Or is "Pimps Up, Hoes Down" just the name of a Snoop Dogg song? For me, it's a lifestyle...
 
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