Are female abusers all cheaters?

[TheKid]

I have a theory that all women that abuse (I mean really abuse) their partners, are cheating behind their back. Remember that any emotional cheating is cheating to a woman. And that they are abusing you due to her unconcious mind hating the fact that you took her freedom away.
Mind you this is only a theory I have and I am applying this so if I start to feel abused im going to think they are cheating and just jump ship no words.
Any thoughts or experiences?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I have a theory that all women that abuse (I mean really abuse) their partners, are cheating behind their back. Remember that any emotional cheating is cheating to a woman. And that they are abusing you due to her unconcious mind hating the fact that you took her freedom away.
Mind you this is only a theory I have and I am applying this so if I start to feel abused im going to think they are cheating and just jump ship no words.
Any thoughts or experiences?

The abuse is a form of cheating. Its a lack of respect which we know attraction can't exist. So once she's destroyed your image at least in the situation with her she will desire other male images that she hasn't conquered.

 

[Paper Crane]

Well duh. They don't value you and basically you're there for their validation to keep their self esteem boosted. They utilize you for power/control while seeking the attention of someone else.

Never let a girl disrespect you. Just like you never let a guy disrespect you. I've made chicks straight up leave just for saying the wrong thing to me.