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Forgot where I read it or saw it. But it was something on Dudes who PURPOSELY fvck other dudes wives or girlfriends are practicing a form of h0mosexuality. As in some form of "dominance" towards another male or males.(Not a dude who bangs some chick he doesn't know has a boyfriend or a husband and lies to him. But a dude who either knows the other dude or about him as a form of "aggression and power".)

Like what happens when certain straight dudes go to prison. A dude may be straight but goes to prison and decides to purposely insert (no pun intended) his "dominance" over other prisoners and bangs them.

Now it's not as extreme as the prison thing but it does seem some dudes get off on knowing a chick has a boyfriend or husband. I've got to find where I saw that but it in a way makes sense. Like some dude getting off that he's not only banging some other dudes wife or girlfriend but "fvcking" him (over) as well.
 

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Probably depends on whether he is addicted to facking others people wives/gfs or he just liked that particular one and did it once or twice!

Even if he is addicted, it could again be for 3 different reasons.

1) As you said, need of dominance. (Not sure homosexuality involves)
2) Adrenaline rush issues, cause of the danger of getting caught.
3) Just because he likes challenges and thinks that this is a challenge.
 

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My two cents on this, although nobody asked for my opinion...

This is close and dear to my heart at the moment. I used to look up to this guy, he was a great dude, told me how to treat people, he took me to workout, he was successful in the worldly sense and had inner success with his Relationship with The Lord as well, He was an awesome dude, who never meant harm. That guy happens to be my brother in law, I have two nieces, they are both precious to me and I love them more than anything.

Recently I've come to find out He's been having an affair for two years with a girl other than my sister. Shocked and devastated, my family had no clue. It feels like a dream, it's only been about a week since we've found out. And both my sisters world and my brother in laws world is upside down. My sister is left in tears, wondering why such a thing could happen, wondering about what her own daughters would think about their dad being a cheater. They are most likely divorcing.
He(my brother in law) probably will lose his right to see his own daughters without my sister being there.

Cheating on your spouse is wrong, and I know that this thread was in no way advocating it, or encouraging people to the challenge, but this has been close to my heart and I needed to let it out.
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DonJuanit0 said:
Probably depends on whether he is addicted to facking others people wives/gfs or he just liked that particular one and did it once or twice!

Even if he is addicted, it could again be for 3 different reasons.

1) As you said, need of dominance. (Not sure homosexuality involves)
2) Adrenaline rush issues, cause of the danger of getting caught.
3) Just because he likes challenges and thinks that this is a challenge.
Your points definitely make sense though I still think it is some kindof repressed h0mo **** to specifically target chicks with husbands and boyfriends. Especially the chronic chasers of those types of chicks as in trying to "prove" something or some anger issues over something repressed.

The dude could always dominate a chick without a boyfriend/husband. Could get a rush banging a chick without a husband/boyfriend in some public place etc. And could challenge himself to get a higher quality chick or chick who wouldn't normally go for his type. But to specifically go after chicks with boyfriends and husbands regardless of your points kindof does seem kindof of "homoish" as other dudes are "involved" in his choices.
 

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HumbleNinja said:
Your points definitely make sense though I still think it is some kindof repressed h0mo **** to specifically target chicks with husbands and boyfriends. Especially the chronic chasers of those types of chicks as in trying to "prove" something or some anger issues over something repressed.

The dude could always dominate a chick without a boyfriend/husband. Could get a rush banging a chick without a husband/boyfriend in some public place etc. And could challenge himself to get a higher quality chick or chick who wouldn't normally go for his type. But to specifically go after chicks with boyfriends and husbands regardless of your points kindof does seem kindof of "homoish" as other dudes are "involved" in his choices.

I can see Sigmund Freud agreeing with you, there is another theory saying that guys who want to fack asses more than pussies actually are gay because they would like their ass to be facked! Funny though, we will never know the true reasoning! I guess every person may have his own reasons for going for other people's wife/gf or even for asses!!
 

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Forget where I saw it, but I read something about trolling on message boards being some form of latent homosexuality.
 

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Joking aside, there are people into consentual cuckoldry where a wife, essentially, dominates her husband by ****ing other men and throwing it in his face, making him watch, etc. Not really sure what's really in it for the other guy though, besides sex. Personally, I would be kind of worried one would snap and kill you or something.
 

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It wasn't freud who said that! But he had some theories like that! He wasn't a fraud in his time, but he was mostly right! Wouldn't want to analyse freud's theories though here! Completely indifferent from our subject!
 

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JohnChops said:
are you high?
No. Dead serious I forgot where I read or saw it.

I think they were talking about dudes who know other dudes in the past etc. who almost have some sort of "crush" on the those same dudes they know or it stems from that (dudes who get lots of chicks whom another guy wishes he had) and it turns them later in life to a dude who bangs other dudes GFs etc. almost as like some weird "get back" or jealousy and they fvck other dudes GF's wives if they can as like some weird "dominance" thing over the dude who got all the chicks up front in their mind to "prove" themselves.


Like say you got all the chicks and we were good friends. Though deep inside I was jealous and wished I was you. Then later in life to be "better" than you I tried or fvcked girls you dated or even wound up fvcking your wife in some sort of sleazball "dominance revenge". I may not have hated you but actually admired you and wanted what you had. As if I wanted to be you.


I forgot where I saw or read it but I've known dudes like that. It's almost like more of a crush or jealousy of some dude or dudes by a guy who in some insane way feels the need to "prove" things to himself by "one upping his friends etc." by fvcking other dudes GFs wives or trying to "get back" at his friends to feel "worthy" as a man. Much more than a dude who is a jealous c0ckblocker. Which is supposed to be some homo way of "fvcking" other men.

Best way I can describe it. It was weird as hell. But it kindof makes sense as I knew in younger days dudes who were like that. As in the types that would hit on anyones GF etc. and literally not give a sht but at the same time were deep down inside wishing they were the guy who originally got all the chicks.

It seems weird as hell but I'm sure there's dudes who've known or experienced dudes like that. Like some weird dominance but "pedestalizing" of some other dude who just was good with women and the other dudes only way to "one up him" was to try to fvck everything the first guy got.
 

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A dude who has sex with a bunch of chicks is a homosexual?

Wtf is pyschology becoming. Pretty sure if youre gay in this whacky theory youre having sex with dudes who have boyfriends or husbands.

So these guys are getting boners to having sex with girls but are pronounced homosexusals?

I think their just douche bags in my theory. Maybe im just to nice of a guy cause most chicks are slewts, but if a girl came up to me and told me she was married but wanted to fvck, id probably laugh and tell her husband how big a ***** he has.
 

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Freud theories are laughable and this thread is a joke, post evidence or zzzzz
 

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BlackAnkle said:
My two cents on this, although nobody asked for my opinion...

This is close and dear to my heart at the moment. I used to look up to this guy, he was a great dude, told me how to treat people, he took me to workout, he was successful in the worldly sense and had inner success with his Relationship with The Lord as well, He was an awesome dude, who never meant harm. That guy happens to be my brother in law, I have two nieces, they are both precious to me and I love them more than anything.

Recently I've come to find out He's been having an affair for two years with a girl other than my sister. Shocked and devastated, my family had no clue. It feels like a dream, it's only been about a week since we've found out. And both my sisters world and my brother in laws world is upside down. My sister is left in tears, wondering why such a thing could happen, wondering about what her own daughters would think about their dad being a cheater. They are most likely divorcing.
He(my brother in law) probably will lose his right to see his own daughters without my sister being there.

Cheating on your spouse is wrong, and I know that this thread was in no way advocating it, or encouraging people to the challenge, but this has been close to my heart and I needed to let it out.
Thanks
BlackAnkle
beautiful brother....simply beautiful
 

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ninja im just going to come up to NY and come help you meet some women and get that d wet in some pussay because it seems to be having an adverse affect on your mind! ITS GONE TO FAR!
 

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BlackAnkle said:
My two cents on this, although nobody asked for my opinion...

This is close and dear to my heart at the moment. I used to look up to this guy, he was a great dude, told me how to treat people, he took me to workout, he was successful in the worldly sense and had inner success with his Relationship with The Lord as well, He was an awesome dude, who never meant harm. That guy happens to be my brother in law, I have two nieces, they are both precious to me and I love them more than anything.

Recently I've come to find out He's been having an affair for two years with a girl other than my sister. Shocked and devastated, my family had no clue. It feels like a dream, it's only been about a week since we've found out. And both my sisters world and my brother in laws world is upside down. My sister is left in tears, wondering why such a thing could happen, wondering about what her own daughters would think about their dad being a cheater. They are most likely divorcing.
He(my brother in law) probably will lose his right to see his own daughters without my sister being there.

Cheating on your spouse is wrong, and I know that this thread was in no way advocating it, or encouraging people to the challenge, but this has been close to my heart and I needed to let it out.
Thanks
BlackAnkle

Yes, of course cheating is wrong, but if you marry a girl with the cheat gene in her then you're going to get cheated on, as will a guy who has that same cheat gene. These people will cheat in any circumstance, any type of relationship, and with anyone they want, because it is part of their persona.

Basically, monogamous relationships are not for everyone, regardless of what society hammers into your head. You can't make that ho a housewife.
 

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You know you're on SOS when you hear about how having sex with chicks is homosexual.
 

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JohnChops said:
ninja im just going to come up to NY and come help you meet some women and get that d wet in some pussay because it seems to be having an adverse affect on your mind! ITS GONE TO FAR!
lol. Dude relax. It's just something I saw/read that I remembered that made kindof sense. (As in if you knew dudes who would purposely go after chicks with BFs/husbands or even worse chicks YOU specifically were dating or picking up. Almost like some jealousy/ admiration of you.)


skinnyguy said:
You know you're on SOS when you hear about how having sex with chicks is homosexual.

LMFAO. That cracked me up! Hahahaha
 

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Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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