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Are dudes who ****block you real friends or phonies?

PeasantPlayer

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What do you guys think? I have probably done it in my life, but not on purpose to one of my friends. I'm not a hater and have passed off multiple women to my friends, I like to see them happy. If it is an acquaintance well I could be possibly be **** blocking, but women are usually shopping for men in social events, so if she starts talking to me while initially being interested in another guy and she buys in to my frame then that's it. My point is if I see my friend is going to number close or hit it later that night and its in the bag, I would not **** block at all. If they female is bouncing around the place well that's a different story
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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It's good to know what a friend is, that way you can be sure.
 

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A man that believes like that is not a friend. But I will say that if a dude c0ck-blocks you and the girl goes with him, than you are not presenting yourself properly.

If a woman is interested in you she is not going to be dissuaded by a c0ckblocker. If you are at a social event and women are not trying to get your attention then you really need to work on how you are showing up.
 

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Your friends may figure the females are just ho3z so it doesn't matter. You need to clarify to them. And any female making it easier for them is not yours.
 

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It was a hypothetical question. We all experienced it from friends, or vice versa. I remember I had one chick I was gaming she ended up going with my boy (still smashed it) basically said I wasn't aggressive enough. Other women said I was too aggressive, have to find that balance
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Friends and friends rarely if ever follow the bro code, **** em
 

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I have a really close friend I knew since I was very young. At social events when women are showing me interest he seems to act a bit weird. I think it's instinctual on some part. I wouldn't hold it against em to bad. I would bust his balls for cóckblocking later though.
 

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If you want to know if your friend respects you or not, introduce pucci in to the equation. I've seen so many fake friendships destroyed by women haha.
 

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I have a really close friend I knew since I was very young. At social events when women are showing me interest he seems to act a bit weird. I think it's instinctual on some part. I wouldn't hold it against em to bad. I would bust his balls for cóckblocking later though.
Had a "friend" like that. We would go out and he would be shy and timid. Whenever I started chatting up a female he would then try and start talking to them and acting different, starting to talk more. When I wasn't chatting with a female he was moping around like a abused puppy. Start to feel he was jealous of me for whatever reason
 

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I dont consider them real friends if they are haters and dont want to see you happy/getting laid. I had one friend that I knew for over 10 years who I just recently stopped hanging out with for this very reason. One example of this is when this girl I was seeing asked him if I was happy with her and he tells her no. I might have said a few things to him about being tired of her acting like a b1tch but for him to tell her that without even saying a word to me about it just shows he wanted her to break up with me lol misery loves company, his gf left him a little while before that happened.

Another "friend" would hate any time a girl would be talking to me in a bar. This one time we were out at a bar, we are just sitting there and this HB9 comes up and is pretty much ready to have my kids lol I along with several other random guys couldnt believe how much attention she was giving me. My buddy was saying "shes ugly, she talks too much" just trying to make me think negatively about her.

If your friend cant be a good wing then hes probably just a jealous b1tch that doesnt have your back
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I'll tell you my personal experience on this.
We are 5 friends where we usually go out together and sometimes we hunt for some women. In the last year or so they stopped showing or introducing the women they want to bed or have as a gf , to me. The reason is that , their women always fall for me.

I'm a decent looking guy and financially better than my friends . Add the dj skils into it and you have a deadly combo. What i want to say is that it's natural for them to be fully into me and i don't think it's **** blocking if it isn't intentional. This can cause a big trouble if your friends don't know what kind of person you are and they are fully serious with their interaction with the chick.

When you become master of the game , you will play with every single woman you talk mostly unconsciously .

Another thing is that it can get you out of trouble , i mean when a woman has low interest at you and zero respect , she will follow your friend if she things he's better than you. This is where you see if your friend is a true friend.

It's a double edged sword.
 

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If you are not actively piping the girl then you need to do every single thing in your power to help your friend get laid. Unless it gets in the way of you yourself getting laid.

If your diick doesn't smell like her puussy at that very moment then move over rover.

I have been in groups where dudes act like they are not aware their friends are trying to get with a girl. If your friend is your friend then you need to help him get laid. Social proof is real and if you are not there for your buddies then you suck. There's lots of girls in the world, if you are gaming your buddies prospects then you are just a weakling out only for himself. To each his own.

Me? As soon as I see my buddies with a girl even if I think he is failing miserably I'll try to help him out best I can. My friends I game with I have known for 20 years. We have all gotten each other laid.
 
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If you believe in the idea that being indifferent can attract a girl, maybe a friend might back off of a girl out of deference to you, and that just makes her attracted to him. Or he might be friendly but not try to "game" her, having the same effect.

I remember Tyler from RSD telling the story of how they picked up some girls, and the girl his friend was with kept letting it be known she was into him (Tyler). This made him so ticked off, he threw them all out of the house and went and picked up another group of chicks.

To some extent, I think men are natural rivals with each other. It's only natural for them to compete sometimes. But yeah, true friends shouldn't step on each other.
 

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I hate the "rivarly" stuff I'm a competitor, but not usually with my "friends" If I am competing with someone I don't know that's fine. I'm unplugged from this matrix, alone, reading. I hate people. Compete all you want for some barfly
 

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Guys do compete naturally though, it's in the testosterone. Maybe not for a barfly, but maybe over a video game, a chessboard, on the golf course or basketball court, in the weight room, wherever.
 

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Guys do compete naturally though, it's in the testosterone. Maybe not for a barfly, but maybe over a video game, a chessboard, on the golf course or basketball court, in the weight room, wherever.
And if the females rolling thru are just "hoez" it's all fair game. Imagine if you would it was a group of "strippers". And your "into" one and buddy **** blocks cause he thinks he has a better chance. Is that a huge problem? Strippers routinely have 3-5 boyfriends at any one time.
 
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