"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Are crew-cuts lame?

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Do u guys think getting a crew-cut style haircut is a turn off for girls? I have awful hair, its extremely fine and grows out in many directions like asian hair on a white guy. (no offense to asian guys it looks good on asians, not suited for white guys.) I tried doin so many things with it and it always looks dorky, like im a 1930's gangster. Slicking it back like al capone is basically my only option. So i decided years ago to just get a crew-cut style haircut, maybe just a lil longer in the front to make a slight shelf appearance. I know most girls are attracted to short hair, but i feel a crew cut is almost immature at times. What do u guys think? I have a boyish face so i think it adds to my youngish look. But i see no other alternative cuz it looks fugly any other way.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

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all of them asking stupid questions like this one.

wtf are u doing seriously? Go read the tips section of the website and stop with this shyt
 

DJinTraining06

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skip2mylou781 said:
216 posts - 48 threads created.


all of them asking stupid questions like this one.

wtf are u doing seriously? Go read the tips section of the website and stop with this shyt

This from the king of idiotic posts. lol
 

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DJinTraining06 said:
Do u guys think getting a crew-cut style haircut is a turn off for girls?
It depends on the shape of your head :rock:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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skip2mylou781 said:
216 posts - 48 threads created.


all of them asking stupid questions like this one.

wtf are u doing seriously? Go read the tips section of the website and stop with this shyt

hahaha....

Anyway, back to the haircut. Unless you want to post a picture of your mug for us to decide on this forum, which presumably you don't, I suggest consulting one of your friends, preferably a girl. What works for one person, may not work for another. If it looks good on you, or more importantly, if makes you feel more confident, then shave it off. But by all means, don't over-analyze your physical attribute. Just work on your game, and they won't matter.
 

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skip2mylou781 said:
216 posts - 48 threads created.


all of them asking stupid questions like this one.

wtf are u doing seriously? Go read the tips section of the website and stop with this shyt

hahaha....

Anyway, back to the haircut. Unless you want to post a picture of your mug for us to decide on this forum, which presumably you don't, I suggest consulting one of your friends, preferably a girl. What works for one person, may not work for another. If it looks good on you, or more importantly, if makes you feel more confident, then shave it off. But by all means, don't over-analyze your physical attribute. Just work on your game, and they won't matter.
 

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crew cuts not a bad idea.

but like bat said, it depends on your head shape and your facial features.

i also agree with what classAct said.

just don't get an awful haircut...and if your hair is fine and goes all-direction, try using a lot of wax and spike it.:up:
 

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Now, Johnny Unitas....THERE'S a haircut you can set your watch to.

I have one, and often get mistaken for being a marine or army guy. It's not a bad opener. The only hassle is that I need to get it buzzed every three weeks, tops.
 

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imo, this is a really GOOD question.

i used to have not necessarily a crewcut but a very short spiky one with buzzcut on sides and back. kinda punky/young. easy to get and easy to do and go.

but i just get the feeling that that's not a look that mainstream, non subculture women really like. they seem to be impressed with something that can actually be "styled"....

thoughts?

delta

p.s. ah, hank hill, his there anything he can't do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well, first day today with my new cut, an easy to maintain #4 buzz. Haven't noticed any decrease in game at all, but it's only been 1 day of course.

Short is simple. I'm looking forward to waking up tomorrow morning and not fvcking around with my hair for more than a minute, having long hair was a hell of a frustrater.

Anyway, for yourself, find the balance between style and comfort. A lot of people seem to be living with haircuts that they just don't like or feel good about. I buzzed my hair for the simple fact that it's clean and easy to maintain, which makes my life a lot easier. If it works for you, then the girls will just have to live with it :up:
 

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to answer your question... YES, CrewCuts are LAME!

...and faux hawks are not Pimp... they're played!
 

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Ol'BlueEyes said:
Now, Johnny Unitas....THERE'S a haircut you can set your watch to.

I have one, and often get mistaken for being a marine or army guy. It's not a bad opener. The only hassle is that I need to get it buzzed every three weeks, tops.
Exactly, i do it every 2 weeks cuz i look like a chia-head otherwise.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DarkLight said:
to answer your question... YES, CrewCuts are LAME!

...and faux hawks are not Pimp... they're played!

pshhh depends which chump has one...


i used to have a faux hawk, dressed very elegant, and laid pretty much any girl i wanted...it was one of the mix and matches i use for my style...

but then again this was back when i still held my jersey for pimpin:yes:
 

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KillaCam said:
Well, first day today with my new cut, an easy to maintain #4 buzz. Haven't noticed any decrease in game at all, but it's only been 1 day of course.

Short is simple. I'm looking forward to waking up tomorrow morning and not fvcking around with my hair for more than a minute, having long hair was a hell of a frustrater.

Anyway, for yourself, find the balance between style and comfort. A lot of people seem to be living with haircuts that they just don't like or feel good about. I buzzed my hair for the simple fact that it's clean and easy to maintain, which makes my life a lot easier. If it works for you, then the girls will just have to live with it :up:
Do u do it yourself? I hate wasting 10 bucks for the guy to do #2 on the side and 4 on top.
 

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DarkLight said:
to answer your question... YES, CrewCuts are LAME!

...and faux hawks are not Pimp... they're played!

It's #2 on the side, 3 on top usually, and they blend in the difference with 2 1/2 i think. I ask for this cuz if i just get one number all around my head looks like a melon, so i like it shorter on the side (no it doenst look like a fade)
I also ask that they dont buzz the front and they just do it with a scissor so that its slghtly longer than the rest of the top giving a slight shelf impression. I rather not post a pic so hope i described it well.
 

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Bro... it might look alright for you.
I'm just saying... any standard default government issued hair-cut style... is not pimpin.

...its plain.

.................. and to Faux Hawk dude. It had its freshness, for a moment. Before half the 15-29yr. olds of America and beyond were rockin it. Its like wearing the color pink. Just played and gay again.
 

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ya your right. Its been played out for a while.

Cant tell Dj to rep a faux if it only worked for me...



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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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