Are Cougars Turning The Tables?

[iliketennis]

your generalizations don't make any sense to me. i'm just trying to figure out what exactly it is that you mean about "cougars turning the table"; what it is you think they should be doing instead

it seems more like you at angry at one particular woman

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Nice try with playing the "I don't understand" reverse psychology role. Think you're trying to "pwn" me by having me "make a fool of myself" while trying to come off as the Cougar's "white knight?" A normal mature woman doesn't fashion herself a "cougar" but an individual and doesn't have something to "prove" to her ex husband, or the world due to her own fairytale "ideals" she grew up with that exploded in her face.

Again, I think they are fooling themselves. Same thing with older men chasing the fountain of youth. How many of these people have anything remotely in common with someone 15 to twenty or more years younger than them? Sex? That's nice. Try hanging out with someone 15 or so years younger than you. I'm sure you'll find lots of things in common and will feel "kewl" hanging out with their younger friends.

Sure I've had alot of younger women I talked to, thought looked really good and hooked up with alot. But when it comes down to it the mindset's are completely off. Casual sex is just that. Or do you live for it? I've got better things to do then deal with the sillyness.

"Are cougar's turning the tables?" Meaning are more men gravitating towards them and younger women taking notice that more and more guys "seemingly" aren't willing to put up with their nonsense and "date" older women? Could the cougar phenomenon wisen up a few younger women? Just a thought.

 

[iliketennis]

i like the points you make. though i don't think the 'cougar' phenomenon will make any young girls wiser, i think that younger guys can learn A LOT from these older women.

i don't think it will ever be socially acceptable for serious couples to be more than 8-10 years apart, no matter the genders. but there are a lot of people out there who are only looking for casual sex.

 

[ChalengeGuyFan]

And why is it that older women trying to date young men are called cougars but older men trying to date young women are just labeled creepy.

BigJimbo once said a line that got stuck in my head:
The older men gaming young girls are called "les playboys" by the French and labeled "creepers" by Americans.
Gold! :crackup:

 

[cavedweller]

I know three women that are cougars..For them dating younger men just strokes their egos..

One even said: "I always date men younger than me."

Like I said it is just an ego thing.

cavedweller

 

[Naughty Ninja]

BigJimbo once said a line that got stuck in my head:
The older men gaming young girls are called "les playboys" by the French and labeled "creepers" by Americans.
Gold! :crackup:

I found that hilarious and true too! In America, If an older guy goes after a younger woman it's "creepy" or they're perceived as a "dirty old man" but it's celebrated by feminazi's that an older woman is "liberating" herself going for younger men. Women from this country would be assed out overseas with their "entitlement" game playing mentality. They could learn alot from women from other countries who IMO are more family oriented, self-aware and pretty straight foward. Unfortunately women from other countries could learn very little of value from women from America. Sad but true.

 

[GetOveIT]

Dude i like "american girls", they good for party and sex, sure thing in this part of the world. nothing hard.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

BigJimbo once said a line that got stuck in my head:
The older men gaming young girls are called "les playboys" by the French and labeled "creepers" by Americans.
Gold! :crackup:

Iv always strongly felt I was born in the wrong time period. This thread is making me rethink that idea; I was just born in the wrong country.