"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Are children born to older men risk defects?

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I want to have kids but don't know when it'll happen. Both of my parents were older when they had me (45 and 43) and I came out okay. I know that women shouldn't have children too late. Just say I'm doing real good in life and marry a 25 year old and I'm 47. Can I still have healthy children?

(That's just an extreme example haha)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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mrRuckus

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It applies to men too. I don't recall to what extent but i remember reading about this.

The children least likely to have defects are from a young man and a young woman.

I wouldn't worry too much about it if the girl is young. Probabilities and that...
 

bigjohnson

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The jury seems to be out WRT older men contributing to birth defects and so on, but fertility definitely declines with age. The studies that seem to point towards older men making inferior children generally data mine and don't properly control for other factors, such as maternal age and first child effect, to name just two of many.
 

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I've researched this recently, and what I've found is that there seems to an increase in birth defects and the occurrence of Down's Syndrome when the father is over 50.

However, in these days of amniocentesis, you could, and should at that age, have a test done. If the likely outcome, based on the test, isn't to your liking, you could abort the pregnancy.
 
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