"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are chicks really this good at checking out guys?

BlahUgh

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Theres this girl that I could be pretty damn sure liked me based on stuff she did (I don't feel like typing all the stuff out so trust me).

Well I sat in the back of class and she sat in the front (it was a bio class with stools and not very full, so clear line of sight). Anyways out of my peripheral vision I would always think I saw her staring at me, but one time I looked and she was staring off into space... I'd see her looking in my general direction every now and then over the days and tried to ignore it, and one time I was almost so sure she was looking that I looked and again she was staring off into space.

Up until now I just figured I was wrong, but I read another post about a guy with a similar incident and it got me wondering are girls really that good at checking guys out without them knowing?

Also I'm not only talking about this incident, but a couple others where I'll hear from somone that a girl likes me, but have no idea that she even knew I existed.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Smooth Player 056

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I have this happen quite frequently. Id also like to hear thoughts on this.



- Smooth Player 056-
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
 

BlahUgh

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToWomen
C'mon man you're too old for this nonsense. Don't overanalze and get in the field. Go sarging. Pick up hundreds of girls. Only then will you know what to do and what not to do. And read the DJ bible for some tips on confidence before you go out. Look for "Rejection Collection" by "2ndTour".
I'm not really overanalyzing anything, I'm just curious about how chicks check guys out.
 

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"I'm just curious about how chicks check guys out."

---Covertly is the answer. Go talk to her and recommend an activity together. If she agrees, do it. If she says no, move on. Stop wondering and go talk to her. Why are you still reading this? Go already!
 

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Yes, some do it "covertly." I tried to catch a couple girls doing this, and as soon as I'd turn my head they averted their eyes. It can be quite comical at times if you make a game out of it and try to catch them. Sometimes they'll even strike a pose when they see you looking. However, this is coming from an AFC who never made an attempt to approach them....
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You should try really hard to not look at her. If she sees you she might think you LIKE HER!!! What if she goes home and tells Amanda that you like her. Then Johnny's gonna laugh because your a LOSER.
 

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I think i speak for everyone when i say you should stand up in class pull out your penis and say "look at his bit*h" then slap her with it.

Ninja out
 

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Just tell me you took action..

Some of us don't even get glimpses unless we shoot first.
 

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yess, we're all wondering when , WHEN will u do something about her staring at YOU? NOW damit!!

:crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I once spent 2 hours staring at this girl in class. It wasn't cuz she was hot though, it was cuz she looked retarded, and you just gotta look.
 

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Ever been walking behind a hot girl and she keeps doing sideways glances at you? This is just another example of a subtle move they make..... I think it is more of a sign they give you to approach or talk to them than an attempt to "check you out." It is kinda hard to check someone out just out of peripheral vision so it has to be a signal instead.
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Ever been walking behind a hot girl and she keeps doing sideways glances at you? This is just another example of a subtle move they make..... I think it is more of a sign they give you to approach or talk to them than an attempt to "check you out." It is kinda hard to check someone out just out of peripheral vision so it has to be a signal instead.
Nah, they do that when they're worried you're gonna jump them. ;)
 

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Re: the rumor....

Originally posted by KillaPetehog
is it true that if you look at your watch.....

and each time you look up at a girl....

and she's looking at her watch too.....

that she was checking you out?
It might work. I read something about how when a girl is interested in you she subconciously mirrors your actions. So look down at you watch and wait like 3 secs and then look at her to see if she does too.
 

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
Ever been walking behind a hot girl and she keeps doing sideways glances at you? This is just another example of a subtle move they make..... I think it is more of a sign they give you to approach or talk to them than an attempt to "check you out." It is kinda hard to check someone out just out of peripheral vision so it has to be a signal instead.
No I think they're are worried your a stalker or something.

Lol jk, but you behind and to the side right? Not directly behind?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pimpfromdayone

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Nah, directly behind, but like 10 feet back so she could see me out of peripheral vision, but like I said, I think it is more of a signal for me to talk to her or maybe even her teasing me than a way to check me out.... although a couple female friends told me girls do this sometimes to check guys out
 

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Originally posted by BlahUgh
are girls really that good at checking guys out without them knowing?

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I have no idea. My buddies and even my mom tell me that girls are checking me out (hell even gay dudes) and i never ever notice it myself.
 
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