“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Are Beautiful Women Deprived These Days?

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The next time you meet a gorgeous woman, you might be surprised to learn she has never seen the ocean, or never been to the fancy restaurant one block from her work, or never had "the love of her life". Ask her!

I'm frequently shocked by these stories from women who, upon first glance, you would assume were completely spoiled. My date tonight looked like Carmen Electra (in 1997) and I learned the poor girl is living in a hotel at age 22. What is the world coming to?

As men, we are supposed to at least spoil the most beautiful women. Otherwise we are not even officially a species. Are we that broke now?

I see it as a huge opportunity.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I bet she's a stripper.
 

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I was referring to four different women. But yes, one is a stripper who I actually met last night. In the old days, strippers who look like her went to Tahiti and Jamaica.
 

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I can show you the world
Shining, shimmering, splendid
Tell me, princess, now when did
You last let your heart decide?
 

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bigneil said:
The next time you meet a gorgeous woman, you might be surprised to learn she has never seen the ocean, or never been to the fancy restaurant one block from her work, or never had "the love of her life". Ask her!

I'm frequently shocked by these stories from women who, upon first glance, you would assume were completely spoiled. My date tonight looked like Carmen Electra (in 1997) and I learned the poor girl is living in a hotel at age 22. What is the world coming to?

As men, we are supposed to at least spoil the most beautiful women. Otherwise we are not even officially a species. Are we that broke now?

I see it as a huge opportunity.
"Spoil a stripper game" = Legit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She is inviously playing her cards wrong. If she is such a good looker, she can have it all. White knights are plenty.
 

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Bigneil, you are so funny with all your strippers, I get a kick out of it. Sounds like you are enjoying yourself though, so more power to you.

I was watching Real World the other day, and one of the guys on there got into a fight with the girl he was seeing. The reason was that she wanted to pay for something for him, and he was all "I'm the man, it's the man's job to treat the woman". He thought he should pay her way, not the other way around.

It's a curious society we live in, which is such a mishmash of old school manners, chivalry, hedonism, sexual equality, and feminism. It's no wonder so many people are confused when it comes to dating.
 

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bigneil said:
The next time you meet a gorgeous woman, you might be surprised to learn she has never seen the ocean, or never been to the fancy restaurant one block from her work, or never had "the love of her life". Ask her!

I'm frequently shocked by these stories from women who, upon first glance, you would assume were completely spoiled. My date tonight looked like Carmen Electra (in 1997) and I learned the poor girl is living in a hotel at age 22. What is the world coming to?

As men, we are supposed to at least spoil the most beautiful women. Otherwise we are not even officially a species. Are we that broke now?

I see it as a huge opportunity.


First of all, if she looks like Carmen we gonna need some pics. Second, no one lives in a hotel unless they're rich of dodgy. Third, pretty women are still spoiled - but now, guys want to play too so its more intense - I live near Miami and just yesterday heard from a friend that he was fed up with women being all about where we gonna go out so he can pay. I think guys who can pay now want sex quicker as a return, so those girls in turn are being more ruthless to get theirs.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oxide said:
First of all, if she looks like Carmen we gonna need some pics. Second, no one lives in a hotel unless they're rich of dodgy. Third, pretty women are still spoiled - but now, guys want to play too so its more intense - I live near Miami and just yesterday heard from a friend that he was fed up with women being all about where we gonna go out so he can pay. I think guys who can pay now want sex quicker as a return, so those girls in turn are being more ruthless to get theirs.
Yes.


The more desperate guys become, the more gold digging the women become.

Back in the 1980s before there was Internet, women didn't act like this.
 

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Bit of a surprising opening post. She is a young girl aged 22 for crying out loud. Is it hardly surprising there are things she hasen't done in her life? By the time she reaches 30 years of age, she would of done shed loads more then the average or even an attractive guys of that age.

As for 'spoling' beautiful women, that mentality is more suited to the 1950s. Times change, things move on and we are now in the year 2015. Each to their own I guess.

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The next time you meet a gorgeous woman, you might be surprised to learn she has never seen the ocean, or never been to the fancy restaurant one block from her work, or never had "the love of her life". Ask her!

I'm frequently shocked by these stories from women who, upon first glance, you would assume were completely spoiled. My date tonight looked like Carmen Electra (in 1997) and I learned the poor girl is living in a hotel at age 22. What is the world coming to?

As men, we are supposed to at least spoil the most beautiful women. Otherwise we are not even officially a species. Are we that broke now?

I see it as a huge opportunity.
 
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Stripper game isn't the same thing as regular game, it requires you throw $100 bills at them, but it's still not easy to get the prettiest girls at clubs to give you their number, initiate and maintain text conversations, meet you outside the club and kiss you goodnight. It also translates to being able to pick up equally hot barmaids and bartenders.

And lots of people live in hotels. They are called business travelers. I lived in hotels 600 days since 2012. That should only increase the odds they would see the ocean.
 

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Its great that you are banging a stripper bigNeil. Where did you meet her?
 

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I met her less than 48 hours ago at her club. She is new in town.

I didn't have sex with her. But I did volunteer to take her to the beach.

Bikini photo.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I know two women one is 38/divorced. One is 45/married. Neither seen the ocean. I also know an 18 yo woman who has lived in homeless shelters in the past and has never left Illinois. So yeah not everybody gets out and around the world as much as others. I've never been outside of the United States Canada or Mexico.
 

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It seems to me that most women I meet have been all over the place. Europe, the Caribbean, South America, etc. It's rare that I ever meet up with one who hasn't been around.
 

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Beautiful women are getting stupider and stupider because they have realized they can rely on their looks for money. But this means that they are often broke, as in the case of your companion.

These days hot girls spend more time on IG rather than getting an education.
 

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bigneil said:
I met her less than 48 hours ago at her club. She is new in town.

I didn't have sex with her. But I did volunteer to take her to the beach.

Bikini photo.

I didn't know Carmen Electra was a man circa 1997.
 

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bigneil said:
I met her less than 48 hours ago at her club. She is new in town.

I didn't have sex with her. But I did volunteer to take her to the beach.

Bikini photo.

She looks older then 22, it is quite common for people to lie about their age in professions such as escorting and stripping. And a lot of these prople get into this job because they are troubled in the mind. Just because someone looks good, it does not man they are ok in the head.

Did you meet this girl and agree to go out after being a paying customer?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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