Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I've seen much worse at the beaches here in the US!!I was looking at this photo of folks trying to beat the sweltering heat there:
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my opinion: Look out for the bikini-whales.
I guess that lower-intelligent folks (i.e., which correlates pretty well with being lower-income) are more fecund (i.e., because intelligence is a K-selective trait, and thus not having intelligence requires the R-selective trait of increased fecundity to genetically remain), and certainly being a low-income man correlates with having less ability to attract an attractive woman., and so such men typically wind up with fatties. It reminds me of the cult classic movie "Idiocracy".
There's probably some truth there, but I'm sure there's more than just genetics playing a role. We've evolved to conserve energy during famines so it's not very surprising when people live a sedentary lifestyle. It's actually a bit of an anomaly for someone to choose to be active. Combine this with a poor diet filled with empty calories such as sugary soft drinks and fast food, and you have a recipe for disaster. As fast food is not as nutritionally dense as healthy food, and because it's easy for your body to metabolize, it creates a scenario where you can consume a large quantity of junk without feeling full. You have to remember also that sugar and calorie rich foods were a rare commodity in nature, so people naturally become addicted to these foods.