That's right, one doesn't want a woman who is very chatty, it's a recipe for problems, quiet women are not really ideal either but an extrovert loudmouth sounds like something unappealing.High status, confident woman generally are not what men look for.
The more high status she is, the more money she earns & as she becomes super confident.. The more Masculine she is likely to become.
Masculine & Masculine together tend to clash.
Hey each to there own, whatever rocks your boat and works for you.