"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are any of you guys employers or managers in NYC?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mr.SomeoneElse

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" Sure man, you start monday. "

Is that what you expect from this?
Seriously dude, list some qualifications, a resume, what type of work you're interested in.
But "I NEED a job" Thats it?

This is also not the right place to be posting this.
 

Naughty Ninja

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I'm an Amway team leader. I can hook you up and start you making BIG money. Do you like money? Do you have lots of friends and relatives? Do they like making money? Perhaps making more money than they ever have in their lives? One word: Amway. (It's the ONLY way.)

Hahahahaha
 

Iceberg

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Youngsmack, you're hired, dawg.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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evan12

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you seem too lazy , no manager will hire you
 
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