“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Are Any Of You Embarressed To Talk To Your Parents?

dadmonson

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About your dating life? I want to be more open to them about the girls I'm seeing, but I haven't even told them that I've had a girlfriend before. I want to know about their encounters with the opposite sex when they were younger and things of that nature, but I'm afraid to ask. Do you talk to your parents(well mostly your dad) about girls? How do they react when you bring up the subject? What do they usually say? Also have you ever brought a girl home to your parents before? Does there opinion matter to you? etc.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Me and my old man sit around and have a drink and swap war stories. His always start with "this was before your mother and don't tell your mother this but one time when I was stationed in...."

It took me growing up and being a man and acting like a man understanding my dad as a man to be able to talk to my dad as a man.
 

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Warrior74 said:
Me and my old man sit around and have a drink and swap war stories. His always start with "this was before your mother and don't tell your mother this but one time when I was stationed in...."
Sounds like you have a cool dad. It's just that my parents act so immature when i even mention a girls freakin name! Can anybody relate to this?
 

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dadmonson said:
Sounds like you have a cool dad. It's just that my parents act so immature when i even mention a girls freakin name! Can anybody relate to this?
Yeah, mine too. They are both so incredibly awkward on the subject that the only reaction they can pull off is to tease me about it. I've just quit bringing it up unless I have to.
 

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dadmonson said:
Sounds like you have a cool dad. It's just that my parents act so immature when i even mention a girls freakin name! Can anybody relate to this?
Yup. My father is more immature than I am when he behaves, and he always tries to give me advice like "women are smarter than us" and "women are always right".... :cuss:

Don't worry. You're not alone. There's lots of us lacking male figures in our lives.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The weird thing is, my dad is definitely in the alpha/dominant category. He's man of the house, king of the castle. Definitely a good life example.

He just can't seem to discuss the topic of girls with his son without being extremely awkward.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Yeah, I was embarassed to talk to my parents. But, when I opened up, my dad gave me advice like great posts that have been on here.

Unless your in Kerpal's shoes...
 

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My dad is awesome, he's completely Alpha and despite being 56 years old, he draws respect from 20 something year old punks. And the women LOVE him. I talk freely with him about a lot of things.

I'm thankful i get the chance to talk to him about it, I know alot of guys never get that chance.
 
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