Are American/Canadian women that bad?

[Yo'Mama]

I'm always hearing that the dating/pick up scene in the US and Canada sucks. I haven't got personal experience of this but recently have been watching a lot of Keys to the VIP episodes.

The format is simple. Each week two contestants have to do live pick up in a club and are judged by a panel of 'experts'.

Anyway, it seems from watching this show that many of the women (although by no means all) are attractive, approachable and quite often charming.

Obviously it would be naive to assume that what we see on the show is representative of real life but it piqued my interest nonetheless.

So American and Canadian DJs - is it really that bad?

 

[Drdeee]

Hehe, America extends far beyond it's borders. Russia for example is America, although not 100%. I think what you talking about here is called eat, fack, self defense. People act based on their self defense. Ever seen a girl dressed in a profile of a slvt walk down street and look away? Self defense. Majority of people act based on their self defense, and besides acting based on self defense they eat and they fack, thus eat, fack, self defense - that's 100% America.


I've been getting some real Russia here, women that act natural, and that's real hot.

 

[DJ2010]

That Keys to the VIP show is fake and scripted, like all "reality" TV. I wouldn't draw any kind of conclusion from it.

 

[r0cky]

That Keys to the VIP show is fake and scripted, like all "reality" TV. I wouldn't draw any kind of conclusion from it.

What do you base this on?

 

[PapiChulo]

Its worse than it's on TV, especially now. I used to live in Europe before and can tell it is this bad over here. Having talked to some older guys, I concluded it was not all the time like that. Early 2000s was probably the end of it, buy even than a decent guy could go to a club and get laid no problem.

 

[Alex DeLarge]

If you want to get married some day, don't even bother with American women. You'll wind up losing your house, kids, and sanity.. And you'll continue to lose a good percentage of your paycheck for a while after that too.

Your ex wife will probably tell your kids how much you hate them and that the whole reason for the divorce is you (while she's popping pills, slugging back the booze, or sleeping all around town). Your kids will hate going to the sh1tty little apartment you can barely afford.

And guess what guys.. Little Jimmy and Timmy are gonna grow up RESPECTING WOMEN so that they don't do WHAT THEIR FATHER DID WRONG.

This is a sad generation for the American family.

 

[Re-ac-tor]

Most, yes.

I've been seeing a Cuban recently. Such a fvcking breath of fresh air. It's like dating a girl in the 50's.

 

[Jaylan]

Ill put it this way, the guys on this board who do well with woman will say it aint too shabby in North America.

While the dudes who do poorly with women will cry about how crappy it is. And that is a vast majority of this board because dudes who do well dont seem to stick around for long from older posts I read. They seem to come in small spots here and there.

I do have to say I am glad my friend group doesnt harbor the general pessimism towards dating that you can sense and feel from being on this site. It can be quite a downer instead of an upper.

I think everyone can find a niche in this country somewhere. It aint all that hard.

 

[PapiChulo]

Jaylan, you need to get out more, go visit other countries and you will get it real quick. It's not all just about the women, it's about many other aspects that foreign folks have better than here (some are worse). Or better yet, actually go live in another country for awhile. I am telling you this as a foreigner based on my Vancouver experience. I can also state that grass in the USA is greener, and a lot greener! The other thing is that I find that local men generally have low standards and are content with psycho b!tches who are average looking at best as long as they get some steady pusssy. That's what West Coast of Canada looks like, the situation elsewhere in this country is probably different.

 

[TIC]

Jaylan makes it his mission in life to seek out all threads discussing North American women and about the foreign option. He then proceeds to pull down his pants and create the most disgusting turd known to mankind

We get it, Jaylan, you are an internet poser who is desperate to prove your so good with american women and don't need to go foreign. Everyone else complains about how superficial these women are yet you have such an easy time with them, right? It looks good on your part and makes you feel warm and soft on the inside. Everyone that gets a foreign woman is a loser, right? Stop being a jerkoff. Stop with the macho act.

 

[Strelok]

Stop wasting time replying to jaylan, a quick check or her post record will make you realise he is either a troll, a poser or a woman.
Any thread (s)he post the result is always the same,just ignore her as you would with a little girl asking your cigar.

 

[Mike32ct]

I believe Jaylan said in another post that he is in school.

As far as picking up women goes, it's a different reality being a university student vs. being in the working world.

 

[Jaylan]

Jaylan makes it his mission in life to seek out all threads discussing North American women and about the foreign option. He then proceeds to pull down his pants and create the most disgusting turd known to mankind

Seek out? Its on the first page of threads, and a lot of threads lately seem to cry about American women so I am giving my assessment. So take a chill pill brah

We get it, Jaylan, you are an internet poser who is desperate to prove your so good with american women and don't need to go foreign.

Lol. Dude someone made a thread, and I gave him my viewpoint. Noone is trying to make this thread about going foreign. Theres another thread for that so please dont try and sway the topic just because you seek to take a dig at me.

Everyone else complains about how superficial these women are yet you have such an easy time with them, right? It looks good on your part and makes you feel warm and soft on the inside. Everyone that gets a foreign woman is a loser, right? Stop being a jerkoff. Stop with the macho act.

Everyone who complains here tend to be in the majority of this forum that constantly complain and bicker about how crappy women are in the states. And come off very bitter too. I thought the purpose of this forum was being positive as a man and a DJ. Not constantly bitxhing about stuff, so how about you stop being a jerk off.

If you wanna argue about the foreign topic take it to the other thread and quit trolling me in this one.

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Stop wasting time replying to jaylan, a quick check or her post record will make you realise he is either a troll, a poser or a woman.
Any thread (s)he post the result is always the same,just ignore her as you would with a little girl asking your cigar.

Yeah I actually have a mind of my own and dont succumb to the bitter group think of this board. As I said previously, the men who end up doing well with girls dont stay here long and what we usually have left are the dudes who swear how horrible the dating game is.

Its true when you look at the posters whove been here for years and years and they pop in here or there and you see the content of their posts are more positive than the guys who have thousands of posts. Basically it seems that when things get better in dating dudes comes here less.

I believe Jaylan said in another post that he is in school.

As far as picking up women goes, it's a different reality being a university student vs. being in the working world.

While true, when I do go to visit NYC(where I grew up) I usually hit up Williamsburg, which is in the boro of Brooklyn. Its yuppie, buppie, indie rock, hipster, a;alternative-ville. I seem to get way more attention from girls when im back in the city than I do up at my suburban school. But I still do just fine at school none the less.

Its a confidence thing and a self fulfilling prophecy. When you carry a swag and a "I know im the shiz" attitude, thing seem to fall in to place. At least they have for me. I guess I would rather focus on the positive and be optimistic of the future than constantly bitxh about the women around me. Because hell, aint like I am going anywhere anytime soon, so I have to rock with what I got.