"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are All Women Not Intelligent?

Fela Kuti

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I was disappointed when I knew that my GF didn't know the latest national and world issues because she doesn't read newspaper and watch the news :( I thought of breaking up with her because of this :( Are the majority of women like this? Is it really that hard to find some intelligent women these days? :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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You should buy the book "The Manipulated Man" by Esther Vilar.

She talks about this and other realities of women most of us unsuspecting guys never knew before.

The majority of women do not have a genuine curiosity for important matters like the news and current events but if they deem pretending to do so is necessary to keep their current man they are with and he is valuable enough to them they will try to learn about this and thus feign interest.

They'll do this for other things as well that their men are interested in because they lack a genuine curiosity for most things we enjoy.
 

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so if I dump her because of that, is it a wise decision? or is that a thing that we should tolerate from our partner?
 

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It will be rare to find a woman with a genuine curiosity for important matters and other things men hold in high regard.

If you are up for the challenge go ahead and dump her.
 
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Fela Kuti said:
I was disappointed when I knew that my GF didn't know the latest national and world issues because she doesn't read newspaper and watch the news :(
Haha, meaning that she is NOT brainwashed on such propaganda as you are - leave yourself!! The question is "Does she read books - do you?"
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fela Kuti

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KontrollerX said:
It will be rare to find a woman with a genuine curiosity for important matters and other things men hold in high regard.

If you are up for the challenge go ahead and dump her.
that is, I don't know if I'm ready for the challenge. because I'm sure that's what the majority of women are like.
 

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They are my friend. Sadly they are.

You might as well hold onto what you've got.

At least until you find that rare diamond among all the coals.
 

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Haha, meaning that she is NOT brainwashed on such propaganda as you are - leave yourself!! The question is "Does she read books - do you?"
yeah, she read novels once in a while, hehe. and college books.
 

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Fela Kuti said:
I was disappointed when I knew that my GF didn't know the latest national and world issues because she doesn't read newspaper and watch the news :( I thought of breaking up with her because of this :( Are the majority of women like this? Is it really that hard to find some intelligent women these days? :confused:

If you want I guess.

To tell you the truth, the only news I ever bother to get is if I'm bored and theres a newspaper around:cool:
 

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IF you are going to a judge a woman's intelligence purely based on her worldly affairs knowledge, you are mistaken. There are a multitude of things you really need to worry about concerning her:rolleyes:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women r mostly illogical...... hence, there curiosities are more emotional driven rather then psychic.... this explains, how they get interested in her partners interests....

Dumping her could be a matter of value 2 you... if you demand some value (core competency in her) that she dosn't have and you believe in long term relationships... then she will be more a pain in ass then some1 fun to be around....
 

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the only girls I have met like this were the artsy-fartsy college liberated save the dolphins/anti-global-warming type girls... And it always annoyed the hell out of me... Because its like they are doing it as a "trend".

My x-gf of 4yrs was pretty smart though about current world news. she was also in the artsy-fartsy type realm but she had a pretty impressive grip on politics and what was going with countries and world leaders etc... I'm sure she will be voting for Hillary Clinton... pshh dumb b!tch.
 
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