Are all the interesting girls fat?

[Kerpal]

I have a theory. Girls who are good looking don't ever really need to be interesting at all because they basically have everything handed to them in terms of relationships. Guys go after them because of their looks, they have all the right social connections because of their looks, etc. On the other hand, fat/ugly girls develop interesting personalities because they need to compensate for their lack of physical attraction.

Anyone else agree with this? Is it just me or are all the interesting girls fat/ugly? How often do you come across a girl who is interesting, smart, AND good looking? The pretty girls are fun to **** but it seems like they're all brain dead. The fat/ugly girls are fun to talk to but are too unattractive for sex.

I do feel sorry for the pretty, brain-dead girls in a way though, because in a few years when their looks start to fade they're going to have a pretty tough time of it since they never had to develop interesting personalities. Thank God I was born male.

 

[KontrollerX]

I think you've got it right for the most part.

Single fat chicks= interesting and fun to talk to.
Single hot chicks= dumb as a box of rocks.

I think its because hot girls that are the total package ie fun to talk to, smart and all that got married to their high school sweetheart and have thus been taken out of the talent pool.

 

[ducaro]

I have a theory. Girls who are good looking don't ever really need to be interesting at all because they basically have everything handed to them in terms of relationships. Guys go after them because of their looks, they have all the right social connections because of their looks, etc. On the other hand, fat/ugly girls develop interesting personalities because they need to compensate for their lack of physical attraction.

Anyone else agree with this? Is it just me or are all the interesting girls fat/ugly? How often do you come across a girl who is interesting, smart, AND good looking? The pretty girls are fun to **** but it seems like they're all brain dead. The fat/ugly girls are fun to talk to but are too unattractive for sex.

I do feel sorry for the pretty, brain-dead girls in a way though, because in a few years when their looks start to fade they're going to have a pretty tough time of it since they never had to develop interesting personalities. Thank God I was born male.

Get this and get this straight. PVssies come in all shapes, forms and sizes and they are ALL insecure. fat ugly chicks don't want to develop interesting personalities.. they are too insecure and do everything they can to make themselves good lukin so they can compete with the good lukin chicks! The only women who develop brains and personalities are the ones who are trying to get even with men!

 

[speakeasy]

Too much of a generalization. There are many unnattractive and/or fat women that are not interesting. I'd say probably the majority. How many people regardless of looks leave particularly interesting lives?

 

[penkitten]

too stereotypical

would the same be true if i said all good looking men are dumb and all interesting men are fat?

 

[floydtheater07]

This is a generalization that is not true. My hottest ex-girlfriend is insanely attractive. She could easily be a model (and that's not just my opinion, but the opinion of the vast majority of the guys who I have talked to about her). Skinny but not skeletal, beautiful face, skin out of some moisturizer commercial, and the definition of amazing female legs. She's also not only my most interesting ex-girlfriend but one of the most interesting people I've met in my life. She speaks two languages fluently, is decent with Latin, reads everything from obscure, centuries old books to Chuck Pahlahniuk novels, listens to classical, folk, pop, punk, "indie", rap, and everything in between, has a huge knowledge of art, is practically a scholar of world history, world religions, and philosophy, and still manages to be down-to-earth.


Yeah, she was a find. And trying to win her back is what drove me to this site; I'll be honest. It almost worked, but not quite, although that's ok, as this site has helped me since then in other relationships. Now, she spent most of her early childhood in other countries, so perhaps the lack of stability forced her to find comfort in her own interests, and that is why she is not the typical beautiful girl who lacks substance.


This topic is, I will admit, usually right. I find myself only dating a select few girls because lack of intelligence and personality really turns me off, even if we're just messing around. However, I have managed to find those who are very good-looking and also possess interesting personalities. So, it's not always true.

 

[Mental]

I have a theory. Girls who are good looking don't ever really need to be interesting at all because they basically have everything handed to them in terms of relationships. Guys go after them because of their looks, they have all the right social connections because of their looks, etc. On the other hand, fat/ugly girls develop interesting personalities because they need to compensate for their lack of physical attraction.

Anyone else agree with this? Is it just me or are all the interesting girls fat/ugly? How often do you come across a girl who is interesting, smart, AND good looking? The pretty girls are fun to **** but it seems like they're all brain dead. The fat/ugly girls are fun to talk to but are too unattractive for sex.

I do feel sorry for the pretty, brain-dead girls in a way though, because in a few years when their looks start to fade they're going to have a pretty tough time of it since they never had to develop interesting personalities. Thank God I was born male.

Hmm. This isn't always true.

Then you've also got the ugly ducklings to swans, man.

As a sweeping generalization, though, sure.

And then you've got the issue of brain dead verses and or nasty personalities, and then you've got shallow issues to deal with.

My last couple of crushes have been usually fairly smart as far as "book smarts" go, but most either quickly turned nasty or showed themselves to be really shallow people. This can hurt chances as WELL as being an idiot.

Plus, a lot of guys have different tastes as far as women go. I find certain women absolutely beautiful when my friends are only lukewarm on a certain woman's looks.

And then interests change. I will tell you that I found my first girlfriend to be the most gorgeous woman on the planet. Then after the breakup, I realized she looked like a female Quentin Tarantino. Ouch.

Anoother girl I asked out (in high school) that all the other guys were chasing, after asking her out, I looked closer a week later, and she was growing a girl mustache! Ugh!

But then it's been my experience that a lot of local women are just nasty, good looking or not, so it's not really a huge issue to me either way.

 

[Obsidian]

Yeah, the poster is pretty much right.

 

[theunflushables]

I used to think that but I've been meeting more attractive women lately that are smart and interesting. I think it has to do more with a correlation of sorts with materialsim. The more materialistic one is the more of an idiot they are. Unfortunately a lot of the hotter women are materialistic which feeds their hotness and idiocy.

 

[Vixen]

If idiocy and hotness go hand-in-hand, then most of the guys in this thread must be bloody male models.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

too stereotypical

would the same be true if i said all good looking men are dumb and all interesting men are fat?

Wow ya... totally agree... judging everything based on appearance is foolish.

 

[Phyzzle]

If idiocy and hotness go hand-in-hand... then most of the guys in this thread must be bloody male models.

Kaching!!

But floydtheater07 is right, women who grew up OUTSIDE THE U.S., they are not worshiped for looks like they are here. They have a tendency to be educated, hard-working and hot.

 

[PeterNorthisawesome]

Kaching!!

But floydtheater07 is right, women who grew up OUTSIDE THE U.S., they are not worshiped for looks like they are here. They have a tendency to be educated, hard-working and hot.

uh... females are usually judged by their looks...

India got BOLLYWOOD
Japan, China and Korea... every girl in CM and shows are pretty or hot.

Foreign chicks seem hotter, because in the US 50% of girls are fat... meaning ugly.

 

[Vixen]

I beg to differ, Phyzzle. Australian society is collectively obsessed with the ideal of the big-boobed blonde chick. Hot girls are definitely put on a pedestal here.

Ugh, what I hate is when guys (but girls will also do it to their own gender, too) assume that because I'm attractive, I must be some sort of vacuous retard - and will treat me that way. I almost suspect that the mindset that in a woman, attractiveness and intelligence are mutually exclusive, is really more of a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Don't even try to be attractive and flirty. Forget it. You could be analysing Shakespeare and people would still speak to you slowly.

 

[NickBe]

I have a theory. Girls who are good looking don't ever really need to be interesting at all because they basically have everything handed to them in terms of relationships. Guys go after them because of their looks, they have all the right social connections because of their looks, etc. On the other hand, fat/ugly girls develop interesting personalities because they need to compensate for their lack of physical attraction.

Anyone else agree with this? Is it just me or are all the interesting girls fat/ugly? How often do you come across a girl who is interesting, smart, AND good looking? The pretty girls are fun to **** but it seems like they're all brain dead. The fat/ugly girls are fun to talk to but are too unattractive for sex.

I do feel sorry for the pretty, brain-dead girls in a way though, because in a few years when their looks start to fade they're going to have a pretty tough time of it since they never had to develop interesting personalities. Thank God I was born male.

Good looking, interesting, smart, funny women are everywhere especially in European countries. I find that when I am in America most of the good looking women want to talk about American Idol and MTV so I see where you're coming from. On the flip side when I am in Europe especially Eastern Europe I find that most of the women are smart, funny and attractive. They are smart because they have to be if they do not get an education they are screwed. Also they eat a lot better (more organic) so almost all of them have nice healthy type bodies.

When I am in America I find it really depends what part I am in. For example I was in Manhattan for two days last year and I met a whole of of smart, attractive women. When I was in Reno though it was as if I was surrounded by people with I.Q. of a door knob. It has a lot to do with location...

 

[Cremasta]

It's simple maths here. The more ticks in boxes you want, the less you have to choose from.

Attractive
Interesting
Funny
Financially set
Educated
etc.

The further you go down the list, the more you eliminate as potential keepers.
All I can say is that you just have to look in the right places. Pubs and clubs will usually get you Attractive and not much else.

 

[tjslove]

Why Do Guys Like Thinner Girls Than Fat?

Is there an evolutionary reason? Like maybe thinner girls, because they were not preganant in ancient times were seen as more viable to sustain the human race?

 

[bigjohnson]

Anyone else agree with this?

Not at all. My experience has been that there is little or no correlation, and if anything the hotter chicks might be a little sharper on average. Maybe only the dumb ones will talk to YOU?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I have a theory. Girls who are good looking don't ever really need to be interesting at all because they basically have everything handed to them in terms of relationships. Guys go after them because of their looks, they have all the right social connections because of their looks, etc. On the other hand, fat/ugly girls develop interesting personalities because they need to compensate for their lack of physical attraction....

It does seem to be the norm. The laws of supply and demand also lends itself to this. It seems to change as the women mature.