"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Are all girls Sluts and *****es

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I just had a great time in the last 2 weeks just focusing on DJ skills and it has gone really well. Dont get me wrong from the title, I have got some great results and learnt a lot of natural instinct.

The only reason why im writing this is because out of all the different types of girls and their outside appearences, none of them I felt like I could trust or even show my true side to. So in a way it was all an act.

This feels really AFC to say but are there any girls out there that you can actually have true love with or is it all just game?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nearly all women are sluts... they all want sex and you will find that beautifull women have sex more than your average women and sometimes they get labeled 'sluts', sex for them has less meaning to them than other people so they are more willing to give you it after even the first date or possiably a 'one night stand?'

As for your question well the game is 'find a beautiful girl that isnt a slut' and this is possiable believe me they are rare but they do exist but these are often the shy types, these are the types that you should get with and guide them from there shyness and bring them out without turning her into a slut.

This is my game plan, when looking for a girl i look for the beautiful but shy type that dont talk about sex 24/7. Nothing turns me off more than a girl that boasts about losing her viginity at the age of 12/13.
 

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i dont know if theyre all sluts but they are all *****es.
 

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The answer to your question is yes, and that's why I love them.

How boring and unchallenging would it be if most chicks were nice, non-aggressive, non-sexual, un****able little girls? Not much fun.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Like Dave Chappelle said one time in his "killin them softly special."

This is paraphrased...

Dave: Girls you got to understand that you may be thinking your not a ***** but to us guys the way your dressed makes us precieve that your a *****. So it just makes it really damn confusing. So in conclusion...you may not be a *****, I'll grant you that...but you ARE wearing a *****s uniform.
 

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Thanks for the replies - I agree completly shadow fox.

The whole true side thing I just dont get. If you let yourself slip and the AFC gets out than thats when the women start to use you. Then you definitly have a problem.

Since I nailed my AFC self and tamed it with DJ Ive got more than I ever could have imagined. Its been fun and rewarding over the last year or so just I havent hit what feels like love until the last few days.

Want the story?...

Met a girl, fallen for her in a non-lust way, both connected so easily it was like we were related. I will admit I didnt use any DJ skills and just acted myself.

.....am I becoming AFC by falling for this girl, hence by question are all girls just sluts using guys (feels like it sometimes) or should I just have fun with it.

Last time this happened I ended getting nailed. So its back to the question: are all girls out to use guys and just be sluts, or are some genuine? Seems this time is genuine...but I also said that last year as well ;)

I need a vacation from DJ for a little while, lol
 

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No some are just prudes.
 
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