She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
no one said it didn't.PersonalJesus said:lol, canada has provinces.
Get back in the kitchen woman
Exactly the problem with most schools today. They teach only localised knowledge. Most people don't even know much about their own neighbouring countries...penkitten said:obviously my post was about the country i live in, usa, not canada.
you have different geography, politics, history and sales tax sweetie.
the above two links are about the boston tea party.
right, you might have learned where some countries are, and if you had ties with them, but that is about it. you dont know much about their history based on what you learned at school.diplomatic_lies said:Exactly the problem with most schools today. They teach only localised knowledge. Most people don't even know much about their own neighbouring countries...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ya ya whatever mrs. "I was talking about my own country, not canada"penkitten said:no one said it didn't.
try to refrain from flaming someone if you aren't going to bother to read what they posted.
perhaps you should get back in the kitchen and MAKE ME A PIE!
roflPersonalJesus said:ya ya whatever mrs. "I was talking about my own country, not canada"
i like my steak well done
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Leporello said:I hate to break it to you, but this board isn't exactly a Mensa meeting either.
uhm sweet little chump boy, can you show me your receipt of purchase for this forum before you tell me where i am or am not allowed?PersonalJesus said:seriously tho penkitten, get off my forum. just your prescense alone offends me.
I'll try my best ma'am.penkitten said:uhm sweet little chump boy, can you show me your receipt of purchase for this forum before you tell me where i am or am not allowed?
oh, whats that? you meant to say, "Seriously, though, Penkitten, get off the forum I like to hang out on because I am afraid of women altogether, and because of that, your presence alone offends me."
Oh, GROW UP and GROW SOME BALLS newbie, don't let little old me offend you.