"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Are all girl *****s or am I just in the wrong crowd?

Sin Verdad

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It seems like every girl I know thinks she is starring in her own version on sex in the city. Are there any high quality women out there still? Where are they hiding?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Snow Plowman

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It's you...

Man = Action
Woman = Reaction

If your going in and there *****y, blowing you out, and overall your not getting great interactions, it's you. You will always get a reflection of your internal state...

Majority of attractive women think there hot...a chick in the suburbs me the hottest thing there, but in a city she will get eclipsed...
 

DrNoAWs

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Wishfull thinking! They broadcast all this crap oveer and there are also websites like myspace.

So moving overseas is no solution. Or are you refering to africa with overseas;-)
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Some women are just like that. If their personality is always like that. Its not a girl you want to be with in the first place.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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3countriesPlan

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Sex and the city is so popular here in Taiwan. There are good traditional girls but an increasing amount of slvts who wear less than American skanks. Its horrible.
 

The Inside Man

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You won't typically find them at the club. Church groups, youth groups, volunteering on campaigns.. A good girl that has been raised right, is hot with a good personality is a pretty rare combo but they are out there.
 

DonGorgon

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Sin Verdad said:
It seems like every girl I know thinks she is starring in her own version on sex in the city. Are there any high quality women out there still? Where are they hiding?

Every woman has an inner ho which will come to to plaY EVERY SO OFTEN... MODERN WOMEN ARE BEING TAUGHT that IT IS OK TO embrace their inner ho as a sign of liberation and independence... Soo yes most women are ***ts..

Bad women will be good at time and good women bad at times you just need to make sure you are getting what you want and can deal with from her.....
 

Cassanova_Child

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every woman has an inner slvt burried DEEP down inside them..... and some its not so deep. the not so deep ones are good for one timers, the deep ones are worth taking the time and bringing it out, as they are actual people.
 
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I think we are all humans, and these days it is a lot more "okay" for women to basically sleep around when single. I personally see nothing wrong with it, because I don't know a man, minus maybe 2-3 that haven't played the field and fvcked random chicks..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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