"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are all girl *****s or am I just in the wrong crowd?

Sin Verdad

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It seems like every girl I know thinks she is starring in her own version on sex in the city. Are there any high quality women out there still? Where are they hiding?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Snow Plowman

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It's you...

Man = Action
Woman = Reaction

If your going in and there *****y, blowing you out, and overall your not getting great interactions, it's you. You will always get a reflection of your internal state...

Majority of attractive women think there hot...a chick in the suburbs me the hottest thing there, but in a city she will get eclipsed...
 

DrNoAWs

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Wishfull thinking! They broadcast all this crap oveer and there are also websites like myspace.

So moving overseas is no solution. Or are you refering to africa with overseas;-)
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Some women are just like that. If their personality is always like that. Its not a girl you want to be with in the first place.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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3countriesPlan

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Sex and the city is so popular here in Taiwan. There are good traditional girls but an increasing amount of slvts who wear less than American skanks. Its horrible.
 

The Inside Man

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You won't typically find them at the club. Church groups, youth groups, volunteering on campaigns.. A good girl that has been raised right, is hot with a good personality is a pretty rare combo but they are out there.
 

DonGorgon

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Sin Verdad said:
It seems like every girl I know thinks she is starring in her own version on sex in the city. Are there any high quality women out there still? Where are they hiding?

Every woman has an inner ho which will come to to plaY EVERY SO OFTEN... MODERN WOMEN ARE BEING TAUGHT that IT IS OK TO embrace their inner ho as a sign of liberation and independence... Soo yes most women are ***ts..

Bad women will be good at time and good women bad at times you just need to make sure you are getting what you want and can deal with from her.....
 

Cassanova_Child

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every woman has an inner slvt burried DEEP down inside them..... and some its not so deep. the not so deep ones are good for one timers, the deep ones are worth taking the time and bringing it out, as they are actual people.
 
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I think we are all humans, and these days it is a lot more "okay" for women to basically sleep around when single. I personally see nothing wrong with it, because I don't know a man, minus maybe 2-3 that haven't played the field and fvcked random chicks..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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