"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are all females "damaged" or have baggage to an extent? If so...

youngmack

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From what i read and hear about, it seems as though all women to a certain extent are damaged or has baggage in one way or another. Ranging from the extremities of being raped/abused during childhood, to the mildness of being hurt by an ex-boyfriend.

Does this mean that there is no such thing as the "high/good quality female"?

If so what is the point in trying to find this good quality female? Shouldn't we all just have sex with as many women as possible? and out of all of them pick the best looking one to have kids with?

Is there any point in getting in short term/long term relationships with women ?

Is this the reason why we must take the "red pill" in order to be aware of this and act accordingly?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Females are kind of like humans - everybody (yourself included) is "damaged", or has issues in one way or another, so your best bet is to simply see them as human rather than an entity entirely separated from men this way.

All females are damaged only as much as all men are, all people are.

I really wouldn't advise pro-creating with "the best looking one", being as her physical hotness secures nothing other than your boner for her; - her hotness may mean she may produce physically healthy offspring, (it may not), but it doesn't mean she'll be a great parent by any means, or be someone you will want to raise a child with.
 

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I truly believe that a virgin women is the only women worth pursuing these days.

It's shows they have self respect and will be willing to commit once you sleep with her.

Meanwhile bang the sluts and let the betas settle for em ;)
 

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The problem is not if/how much they are damaged but the fact that you're expected to pay them as new according to them,media,law and society.

I have nothing against buying a used car if Im paying 20% of the original cost but whoever buys a 10yrs old car paying it full prize, or signs a contract about keep paying insurance even if the car is broken and no longer works is simply a professional idiot.
 

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Halcyonique said:
I really wouldn't advise pro-creating with "the best looking one", being as her physical hotness secures nothing other than your boner for her; - her hotness may mean she may produce physically healthy offspring, (it may not), but it doesn't mean she'll be a great parent by any means, or be someone you will want to raise a child with.
I agree with this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well I can confirm that pretty much all chicks ONLINE are damaged goods. IRL, the only place you stand a chance of meeting a decent woman is church. Even there, plenty of hORs to sort through.
 

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Halcyonique said:
Females are kind of like humans - everybody (yourself included) is "damaged", or has issues in one way or another, so your best bet is to simply see them as human rather than an entity entirely separated from men this way.

All females are damaged only as much as all men are, all people are.

I really wouldn't advise pro-creating with "the best looking one", being as her physical hotness secures nothing other than your boner for her; - her hotness may mean she may produce physically healthy offspring, (it may not), but it doesn't mean she'll be a great parent by any means, or be someone you will want to raise a child with.
Very insightful. I am surprised i over looked this. In this case why does the term high quality exist then? Since we are all damaged in a way , what makes us high quality people?
 
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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Saying a boyfriend hurt you is a generic copout for wrongdoing by women. Not all girls are damaged. The red pill is that #1 even non-damaged girls can be low quality if they choose to wh0re themselves and #2 quality women are VERY rare

You got point there bro.
 

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I also believe if in the case we are all damaged both men and women, a damaged woman is worse than a damaged man. The fact that girls are fickle and emotional they are less likely to grow and overcome their problems.

The only damaged woman I've seen who overcame her problems is Oprah Winfrey. Most of the times a female would let those problems control her and she would spiral down into a life of promiscuity ,drugs,becoming more damaged, and overall become a low quality female.

Men on the other hand are more logical and rational than women. They are more likely to learn and grow from their mistakes and harships. We see this all the time in professional athletes and successful men. I.E Barack Obama who used to do drugs as a teen and is now president, dez bryant was raised by a fourteen year old mom who did cocaine and went to jail with no father figure is now making millions in the NFL.
 
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