Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Curious to know how are all women fair in that catagoary. Is it true if you have tons of money the better quality of women (looks wise) you can attract/marry?!
Therefore no matter how good your game is, if you have average to high income, you are going to get something as well but your options decrease??!! Is the purpose of having a "tight game" is to compensate your lack of funds?
Discuss.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Curious to know how are all women fair in that catagoary. Is it true if you have tons of money the better quality of women (looks wise) you can attract/marry?!
Therefore no matter how good your game is, if you have average to high income, you are going to get something as well but your options decrease??!! Is the purpose of having a "tight game" is to compensate your lack of funds?
To an extent. Why do you have to actually ask these painfully obvious questions?
If you were a woman and you had two guys - a HOT guy with above average income (but not enough for both to retire) and an average guy like Trump with MILLIONS and BILLIONS - who the fvck would you choose, esp. if you were the ambitious type or the type that just enjoys the nicer things in life? Duh.
There are hot women are satisfied with just what they need, but they aren't as common as how women who want everything.
Assuming you're no Danny DeVito, huge amounts of wealth or power can trump model looks many times with beautiful women (I'd say close to 50/50) - especially if it comes to marriage and not dating. Beautiful women have already had their share of good looking men - they're ready for something more concrete, something more permament - like a nice house and a yacht.
we MERCILESSLY judge each other and we try to find the BEST WE CAN.
think about how we instantly judge women according to their 'suitability' to us. it is as cold-hearted and merciless as anything that women do to us and we do it in milliseconds of first sight.
it means that if you're a poor guy or a fat girl, you are well and truly hamstrung and you're probably destined for each other!!! (yikes!)
EVERYBODY wants to be loved for the 'real person inside'.... but how much sympathy would you give to a fat girl who says that?
i am an unsuccessful afc and i say that all the time... and yet, i understand:
it is CRUEL. it is COLD. it may in fact be UNJUST even. and there's no avoiding it....
boys and girls, when they say life is not fair, they mean that literally.... and if that truth doesn't make you hurt inside, you're either a beneficiary or you don't properly understand the statement.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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