if you put on your adult hat for a second and got rid of the drive by gotcha politics of the situtation, you can really see the fustration on both parts.
In reality, there are a good dose of women that who married in their 20's, got a divorce in their 30's for whatever the reason may be, and are now trying the dating scene for the first time in years, only to find that the game is not the same as it used to be. They no longer have their pick of the litter. When they were 21-25 all the boys their age hit on them, now they are 35-40 years old and all the 35-40 year olds want 25-30 year olds if they are capable of getting them.
The men that she is not interested in, are generally the guys that for the most part, were ignored when she was 21-25 years old.
The frustration on the woman's part is that she wasn't the one doing the ignoring. She was married. Or she was just in a serious relationship. OR she was working on a masters degree. Whatever. the point being that she wasn't the one that was doing the ignoring of you.
From the male's perpective, it's like being unleashed on a world class thoroughbred race horse for the first time in your life (assuming you have your **** together) whereas your entire life you've been riding on the back of fair show horses that go around in the cirlcles on the chaines lol. You've never experienced being in a position of power. Women take this for granted. Then for the first time at 36 years old the man is in complete utter dominance of the dating scene and he wants to take advantage of it by dating the hottest women he can lol. Nothing wrong with that.
The probelm is, the women assume that this guy, is the guy that has been doing this for the last 15 years and it's not, the guy assumes the women who are single looking for good men when more times than not, it's not.
My wife has a good friend who has been divorced she's 34 years old. She's cute by LA standards. When I first met her she was a legit 8. now i'd give her a 6.5 she doesn't work out and she's starting to age a tad. She's got no bad habits, she even goes to church! By no fault of her own, she just can't find a date. She goes on these rants and I can understand her frustration, BECAUSE I'VE BEEN THERE. Men she wants to date aren't interested in her, just like women I wanted to date and women you wanted to date, weren't interested in you.
In short, there are good women who have their **** together who just for whatever the reason may be, are starting over. a lot of them they are getting the shaft becuase of sluts in their 20's who treated men like us like ****.
I think a sign of maturity is the ability to have compassion for others. There are some women who deserve being single and lonley. But not all of them. Alot of them are just trying this like we are
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