Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thermite was never found, so what's the point in experimentation? If you believe thermite (or nano-thermite, whatever) was ever found, I'm warning you I have write-up awaiting you. I'm writing this short post as a courtesy before I give a gentlemanly smackdown. I might hold-off for a few days or week while I polish the writing, but it awaits.Alle_Gory:
This engineer does some experimenting and concludes that the thermite demolition theory is plausible (key word).
You're right. Nothing was found. The remains were hauled away very quickly and destroyed despite protests that there should be a proper investigation.Rogue said:Thermite was never found, so what's the point in experimentation?
If you can refute this guy's claims then I'd like to hear it.I'm writing this short post as a courtesy before I give a gentlemanly smackdown. I might hold-off for a few days or week while I polish the writing, but it awaits.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
http://www.skeptic.com/eskeptic/11-09-07/#featureAlle_Gory said:If you can refute [Richard Gage's] claims then I'd like to hear it.
I've read through it and if the evidence truly is as presented it's a very reasonable analysis. It's also concerning how people tested the chemicals found on ground zero. If they really believed foul play it would have been REALLY NICE for them to collect data and evidence in a more thorough manner.Deep Dish said:
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes. I had abandoned this name for several reasons, but changing the name was a big mistake. I'm open about it as I have no interest in sock puppetry.Alle_Gory said:Thanks for the read. Just out of curiosity, didn't you post under Rogue after abandoning your account as Deep Dish? Or am I mistaken?
The logistics of the attacks demonstrated a degree of intelligence.DanielMadr said:Why is it hard to believe that bunch of pissed off muslims did it?
Al Qaeda and the Taliban, though perhaps sharing some similarities, are two distinct political groups. A former al Qaeda operative wrote a book which explained their motive in drawing the United States was to drive us into bankruptcy, and I believe they succeeded rather admirably. We fell right into their trap. I guess you must be forgetting about all the plots foiled by the FBI for the decade prior to 9/11—I don't—and this far preceded the Taliban's prominence in power.Quiksilver said:The logistics of the attacks demonstrated a degree of intelligence. The concept of a political group (the Taliban) coming to power in Afghanistan in 2000/2001 and deciding it was a good idea to attract the ire of the most powerful military on the planet demonstrates an inconsistent degree of intelligence.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.