"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Arabian Girls

jason86

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I don't know, does anyone find Arab girls a bit stuck up or what. It ain't a coincidence that all of the ones ive ended up being in contact with, walk around like their sh1t smells of roses. I actually went out with one when i was back in school and man was she up her own sh1t, even though we only lasted for a few weeks.

Ive now came in contact with one from work and shes the same. They all seem cold as ice. Honestly why is that? Anyone got any idea?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jake-inator

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Hmmm i don't know about arabian girls but i've been around a lot of indian girls and i see the same pattern of behaviour.

Most indian guys i know are total AFCs and they will fight you to the death than disrespect a girl. Maybe that has something to do with it.

It's probably some cultural thing, and there are exceptions.
There are plenty of nice/shy girls too.
I wouldn't worry too much about it. After all, there's bit*hes in every culture.
The most important thing is finding a girl you like.
Don't worry about some weird psycho bit*h. Who cares why she acts the way she does? That's her problem (and the poor sap's who'll settle for her)
The important thing is: she's not what you want in a girl.
 

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i tottally agree with you, im a pakistani guy from the UK and i have been out with an arabian girl she was stuck up and so are all her arabian friends, they think they are gods gift, i admit they are pretty but who cares about that, i don`t jus fall for a girl just because she has looks , looks can be decieving. and yes it is a cultural thing with asian lads, we never like to loose in fights an things like that.

But there are plenty of girls of all colours and sizes just find another 5 or six to keep you going for a month, then change 3 of them and keep doing that, thats wot i do.

GOOD LUCK
 

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I'm no expert

on Indian girls, but they have always been friendly to me. I am caucasion, I don't know if maybe they just go for guys like me or something. However, I've been approached by several Indian girls who obviously were hoping I'd have interest.
 

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Na indian girls i find cool. Ive been with quite a few indian girls as the area i live in London has a large amount of them.

But arabs are a whole different matter. I went out with one at school and know a few from uni, and they all are completely up themselves. And now this one from work aswell. The way she walks, talks, EATS is annoying me, lol. I don't like when girls think they're better than me coz a girl can not be better than a man.

And the thing is im finding myself going on her level, which brings most of our conversations on who has the most power.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jake-inator

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Maybe that's why they make 'em wear burquas.... so they don't get full of themselves.
 
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