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"Aqua" in Minneapolis?

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Has any of of the guys here from Minn. ever been to Aqua Nightclub in Mpls? I've been planning on going this next weekend but want some of your opinions first.

Also, what is a chicks def. of "hot". I've looked it up but nothing. Cute comes up, but not "hot". Shes a bartender who's been eyeing me but im cautious about girls like that. Although, b4 i left she did give a hug!! Geez i've been out if the game too long!!:down:
 

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I have not been to Aqua but I would recommend Deja Vu instead.
 

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Eh, Aqua tries to be a "quality" club by enforcing an upscale dress code. I've seen people turned away for not dressing impressive enough. Envy is right there too and I'd compare the two. Personally I say that Envy has a better left-coast vibe plus better guest artist. The DJ from Paisley Park spins on the weekend.

Have you been to Valentino's in St. Paul yet?
 

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Well, i guess i wont be going to Aqua then this weekend!!

I was thinking about Valentino's right after i wrote my 1st post.

In fact the girl who called me "hot" told me she is going to have her b-day there is a fwe weeks. Maybe i'll check it out then.

I'm getting bored and need a new place to chase tail, do u have any good suggestions Fransico? I'm 25 and tired of girls texting non-stop, adn their g-damn cameras now too! Insecure beyond belief i say.
 

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One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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It depends on your style. I like Aqua but Valentino's gives me more variety with several places to lounge and sarge in comfort. The women in both are top shelf in looks but I see the women at Valentino's as more friendly and playful. It's Euro for get ready to listen to trip-house. For easy pickups you could always go to Gabby's (that's a joke, I wouldn't go there without security and penicillin).

You could try out 414 in Minneapolis, it's fun but occasionally pretentious, kinda Karma use to be. Don't go to Karma though, it's gone WAY downhill. The only other two are Axis and the Annex, they're good to fallback on. Decent DJs, good bartenders, the girls are average and above.

You know what, go to Valentinos. You'll enjoy the variety.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
It depends on your style. I like Aqua but Valentino's gives me more variety with several places to lounge and sarge in comfort. The women in both are top shelf in looks but I see the women at Valentino's as more friendly and playful. It's Euro for get ready to listen to trip-house. For easy pickups you could always go to Gabby's (that's a joke, I wouldn't go there without security and penicillin).

You could try out 414 in Minneapolis, it's fun but occasionally pretentious, kinda Karma use to be. Don't go to Karma though, it's gone WAY downhill. The only other two are Axis and the Annex, they're good to fallback on. Decent DJs, good bartenders, the girls are average and above.

You know what, go to Valentinos. You'll enjoy the variety.
I concur

I was at val's last night Got two numbers (4, and hb7)
when val is poppin its fire when its dead its dead
last night was semi-fire so it was cool

I don't really mess with aqua (they don't like brothers)

annex the girls are hot, but stuck up

anyone ever been to river falls?
 
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