I;ve been talking to alot of my friends, and they all find the idea of cold approaching wierd. I don;t get it, even before i found this site I cold-approached, admittedly only three times (damn got to get that number up). BUt what do you guys think is the reason some approach strangers and others will never?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter kidkoala
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