"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Approaching Women, while your with a chick friend.

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I went to the malll of all places with a chick friend, i wanted to run in and pick something up real quick, as i was dropping her off. Instead she said she wanted to chill at the mall for a while so i said hmm ok, i guess it beats sarging alone. She walks into a store and starts looking at some outfits, and i told her i was gonna go pick up some chicks, she said "haha, fine then, lets see it" I approach 3 chicks overall I gave plenty of eye contact, good BL, but when I asked their ages, they were all too young, and I figured it was enough practice, and I'd end it there(should i maybe lie about my age, and try getting a #?) Anyways my chick friend, ask how it goes, I say fine, but i could tell she was interested. Later on she asks me about what I said, I told her, and she didnt say anything. I guess she thought I wasnt that ballsy. Anyways, I think im starting to like the chick friend as more then just a friend. Was this whole thing a bad idea, and should i drop it before i develop oneitis? or should i pursue... Btw. Its a group of 3 chicks, not 3 seperate chicks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by gimmeyofonenumba
I went to the malll of all places with a chick friend, i wanted to run in and pick something up real quick, as i was dropping her off. Instead she said she wanted to chill at the mall for a while so i said hmm ok, i guess it beats sarging alone. She walks into a store and starts looking at some outfits, and i told her i was gonna go pick up some chicks, she said "haha, fine then, lets see it" I approach 3 chicks overall I gave plenty of eye contact, good BL, but when I asked their ages, they were all too young, and I figured it was enough practice, and I'd end it there(should i maybe lie about my age, and try getting a #?) Anyways my chick friend, ask how it goes, I say fine, but i could tell she was interested. Later on she asks me about what I said, I told her, and she didnt say anything. I guess she thought I wasnt that ballsy. Anyways, I think im starting to like the chick friend as more then just a friend. Was this whole thing a bad idea, and should i drop it before i develop oneitis? or should i pursue...
I 'll say this: You kno what you need to do to put your mind at ease-no one knows you better than yourself-you know problem which is this chick friend..since she seem to be so interested in your love life then why don't you give her a personal experience?
 

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I wouldnt say she is "so interested in my love life" I think she was just interested in what i had to say.Same thing, as if she was approaching guys, Id been pissed as hell(j/k) but i'd still ask her what she said. I can tell this chick will give alota sh!t tests as well. Like I have to be looking into everything from 2 perspectives now.
 

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The best defense is a good offense.

Strike first!

Put this girl solidly in the 'friends zone' while you still can.

We all know what happens when you pursue a girl who has put you in the friends zone, it's not worth it!

She'll make a fine pivot to help you pick up chicks - unless she has feelings for you - just don't turn into the chump.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by BrotherAP
The best defense is a good offense.

Strike first!

Put this girl solidly in the 'friends zone' while you still can.

We all know what happens when you pursue a girl who has put you in the friends zone, it's not worth it!

She'll make a fine pivot to help you pick up chicks - unless she has feelings for you - just don't turn into the chump.
So you think i should stick her in the Fzone? (how would i go about doing that) just keep hanging out with her like we have the past few times?) cause the past 2 times ive chilled with her, she was at work I went in to mess around with her and she would wanna go do something later. Im just not sure how exactly you keep her in the Fzone. Do i actually need to say anything? and i wait for her to initiate something more than friends? also, what do you mean by pivot? like a chick that helps you pick up chicks? lol. Also, does approaching other chicks in front of her effect her interest level? ALOTA questions, 'ppreciate it guys.
 
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